Why do we have to experience pain? NEED YOUR ADVICE

[stregnaj_08]

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kaya ra lgi na nmo...ur a smart girl...u knw wats best for ur relationship...so good luck sa imng mga decisions and think it over and over and over pra wlay regrets later...dba...

[dessay]

To answer your question, well, life isn't sunshine all the time, we have to suffer a little to discern its goodness.

Relationship is the same, we go through a lot of bad ones in order for us to see our true value as individual.

All I can say to you IamtheWind, don't let your heart rule your mind. They have to work the same way. In a relationship, Love is all about two people, not You only...

You can't say that he loves you despite of his cheating ways, 'coz there's no such thing. I certainly don't believe that men are born polygamous, it's not as if they don't have a choice.

As for me, it's a complete act of selfishness and disrespect.

Well, to you..I wish you luck, whatever decision you make, I hope it will make you happy and strong.

[digitalsuperman]

to feel pain is human.

[IamTheWind-]

You're absolutely right dessay! Pero some guys would think nga in-ana na gyud cla mga lalaki..Dali ra daw na matempt and all (Kay lalaki ra daw cla)...What a nonsense reason...

As of now, hinay2x na ug ka-clear akong mind. Thanks to you guys...

[The Dreamer]

we must to experience pain in order for us to know that it is really PAIN

bwahahaha...

[callprimz]

we experience pain because part ra na sa life...

[Yano]

leave the guy and go out with me, i mean with someone better.. life is to short for sorrow. and time never stops. so why are you stopping to someone who does not deserve your love.. hand it to someone better...

[Zealot]

so that we will be strong to face another trial.....

[mELay]

for you to feel blessed with simple things that will come along your way.. and to make you stronger and better person.. everything has a purpose.. but you have the option to choose.. ok? feel blessed. ask Gods enlightenment.. things will be just fine..

[flanker]

we need to experience pain? hmmm its a wake up call... its time for you change something to make your relationship a bit stable.. or it is time to let go!!!