just wanna know... is it still possible? how can it affect your relationship?
just wanna know... is it still possible? how can it affect your relationship?
obviously poh its impossible bec.u cant get over it.maybe u can forgive her but the "cheating thing" cant ever be forgotten. even if now ull be able to reconcile...but once ur into arguments...that cheating thing will be brought up again.and besides...if he/she had cheated...whats ur assurance that he/she wont cheat later on?if a person has cheated it only means that he/she is not contented...he/she is not happy thats why he/she is looking for something...perhaps more/better.
restoring a trust is the hardest thing to do in a relationship coz its like picking up the pieces of a broken glass that if ull be clumsy...ull get hurt...and ull keep on hurting...and after uve already have gathered all the pieces yet the licks to prove that it has been broken will remain and no matter what u do...theres no way u can repair it unless u buy a new one. (love someone else i mean)
ull get hurt now from forgetting her but eventually ull be able to move on which is pretty much better than waisting ur time for the same girl and hurting all over again.ill bet u its gonna happen again.she've done it once...sure she'll do it again.she's a cheater..there's no way u can change it.bad habbits are hard to die so better if ull get over her and start a new life with someone else.dont waist ur time from taking shit from her...she's just gonna abuse u...so since she've done it..ruined ur trust and relationship so be it...she's just a small fish in a big pond bro!so cheer up!
lsud na jud ibalik ang trust. kon nakahimo sya ug cheat nmo once, den it is not impossible she/he will cheat u agen for the 2nd 3rd or for so many times.
biyai nalang jud na sya.
i wont accept her again ... kalood no gigamitan na ug lain laki ako pa gyud dawaton ...
Cheaters don't deserve to be trusted AGAIN: not now, not ever.
To answer your question re: how, well you can play stupid, and pretend that nothing ever really happened and hope for the best.
it's so d@ym hard to trust a person once they've already cheated on you. i agree on what the others said, you'll be able to forgive the person but FORGETTING is the hardest part. you'll always be haunted by the past & that particular happening won't ever get erased in your mind. mao nay makalagot.. GRRRRRRRR!!!
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