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noy
aw kung mao jud nay imung tan.aw hehehe..imu pud nang opinion.
by the way the Church doesn't teach that contentment is impossible to attain rather, it is attainable through God.
personally i believe in it but not necessarily in a religious notion.. i believe even Atheists can have contentment too..provided that they have good conscience 'cause a good conscience is a grace from God.
by the way, was your lolo also an Atheist?
my lolo was a Roman Catholic, although he was not religious, panagsa rako makakita nya nga mosimba, wala ko kita niya nga nag ampo, and when he was in his deathbed he was just silent,.. he was a simple man who had a simple lifestyle.. a very good example indeed when talking about contentment.. i dunno about you but ive seen contentment in him..
contentment is positive man bai.. refusing to hope because of ill feelings and bitterness is very negative and is something else entirely opposite from contentment.
your late lolo's view was a good example of contentment though.
Contentment is either, positive or negative., contentment for most of the times are borne out from a negative experience, and its up to you to make it positive, contentment is more of a choice, just like happiness is oftentimes.. if you married someone whom you deemed as lesser than your previous ex, it is your choice to whine over it or learn to accept it and be happy, and if one chooses the latter, makaingon pa gihapon ka nga dili gihapon siya kontento sa tinuoray?
which makes your job a perfect one if you love your job. so perfection exist after all..not necessarily based from how most people fantasize about perfection..but how things fit in our lives, but can and will you stay in that state of personal perfection?
which brings me back to my original question which i believe you did not answer.. give that you are already contented with your job and you love everything about it but you see that there's an oppurtunity to increase..would you still take it? or sundogon nimu imung lolo?
i never said my job is perfect,.. and i dont consider it perfect, but i love my job.. bay when i entered this job 5 years ago mao ra gihapon akong position hantod karon, despite recommendations thrown at my table to apply for a higher position, despite me achieving another degree, i decided not to step up, because feeling nko kontento rako sa akong trabaho.. and dili ko ganahan nga ma kwaan akong time for my family,.. so there you go..
probably, but it doesn't rule out the purpose behind sufferings.
honestly, her positivity towards her illness and her peace in the midst of pain was something else to me..i would say inspiring but somewhat more weighted.
speaking of euphoria, 9 years ago, hapit ko namatay tungod sa raptured appendix but there were no euphoric moments..i didn't feel any excitement nor extreme happiness..wasn't scared either..but there were very deep thoughts and regrets.
had i not gone through that particular state i would have missed several significant learnings in life...now i dunno if you'd call that fantasizing or just a habit of connecting the dots but to me it's purpose..and everything was guided..just like evolution(para dili ta off topic Lol)..
i didn't even see it that way back then..'cause all i had were questions..esp with the hospital bills..Lol
sufferings are sufferings.. i know a lot of people nga nausab after they were given a "second" life.. naa sad koy nahibaw-an nga mura ra ug wala.. like i said it's up to us to make out something from it., in my opinion it's just nothing but plain ol' suffering, we all experience suffering, like what they say, life is b*tch haha...
who dies from appendicitis? haha no pun intended, it's a far cry compared to cancer, i bet doctor never told you you had 6 months to live.. that's why you experienced no euphoria whatsoever., but who am i to say? i never experienced any serious illnesses all my life, except atong bata pako naligsan ko ug tricycle, but that was a long time ago, wa sad ko kahinumdum kay nakuyapan man ko.. so no euphoria there...
can you then disprove my assertion of purpose? i have already laid over my points above.. appendicitis wasn't self inflicted..and situation reaching the raptured state was completely out of my ignorance. surely i couldn't be held fully accountable for something i didn't know in the first place.
so it was random, but i've gotten specific results and learnings.
i cant in any way disprove your assertion,. it's as futile as proving the existence of a
sigbin, do you know why they can't disprove the existence of the lochness monster? or the bigfoot or the chupacabra? because it doesn't exist in the first place.. more so that what you are asserting is an immaterial concept.. but on the other hand, it's funny when you mentioned appendicitis, because appendices serves no function in our body.. haha..
i don't know if appendicitis is not self-inflicted,. i heard it's because of what we eat.. perhaps you did not intend it, but it's self-inflicted nonetheless..
'cause it's the natural thing to do and like i said, it doesn't have to be an expression of doubt in my God. on the contrary, i am following the process God has laid over under normal circumstances..i'll just leave the unusual things with Him..
haha 'em oldies always say, "aw kung kwaon nata sa ginoo, aw kwaon najud ta".. haha, going to the hospital is like saying, ayaw sa ko kwaa kay di pako ready.. haha.. and if magka leprosy moadto ug doctor, i guess killing a bird and a lamb and sprinkling his blood all over the body is no longer effective, eh? haha, aw leviticus man diay na, i guess di nana applicable karon, sauna cguro effective na.. haha..
why? isn't it possible? after all.. the bible didn't really say that we have to take everything written Literally..hehehe...
haha humor me..