Should Couples Live Together before Marriage?

[fingolfin]

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.. sad fact is, the majority of marriages will fail, there's only a small percentage that a marriage will actually work. Sooner or later, it will crumble. Being married shouldn't be just limited to the Day of Celebration but the entire life you'll be living with your husband/wife, that's what true marriage is. And in a live-in, you are bound not by the paper that you've signed ( marriage contract ), but on the words you've promised to your loved one that you'll be faithful. And as for me, live-in is much more honest and sincere than being legally married.

[seven_segment]

marriage.....

[ieskna]

i still feel na marriage jd...kay naa mo blessing to live together from the church..
but of course before we get married we have to make sure that she/he is the one...if naa
jd doubts and all other issues that might complicate things..rather not divulge into it nlng..
maybe naa double standards about this issue... but if maglive-in mo...dghan au ma sacrifice
specially on girls part...mao ghapon ang mahitabo..wat if magbulag mo??mas devastated ghapon mo
both labi na if u lived together for several years..

[gorz]

marriage sad ko. unfair ra pud on both parties if live-in forever.

[JRL]

for me...live-in lang sa siguro for 5years to get to know each other. if mo succeed mo ana nga years then i think it would be marriage na the following year.

kung diretso marriage man gud mostly maglisod jud og adjust ana nga 5years...mao man gud na critical stage sa marriage ang 5years kay full of adjustment and understanding to one another para lang jud mo work ang marriage. naa uban wala pa kaabot 5years, their marriage turn to sour na...some are just living together for the sake nga marriage lagi kuno sila but in the end magbuwag ra japon kung di na jud magkasinabot.

so para nako jud...live-in first for 5 to 10years to get to know more acquintances with each other.

[pankie101]

luoy mn pud kung live in ra...wala kay grounds why that person should be tied up to you..
ug makina-unsa..pwede ra mn ka niya ingnon..."minyo diay tah??"..dba..
wala kay hold niya..dili jud siya imo...


but make sure that you are SURE as in super sure kung mag-minyo na mo..
dapat imong tibuok pagkataw gusto gyud makig-minyo..
kay ug naay maski gamay nga reservation...mag-serve na as cavity..
nga later on..mo-daku and maka-cause ug bati sa relationship...

the best way jud cguro is the years that you've know each other..
lisud mn gud ug ayha pa ka maka-discover na minyo na mo..
di na baya pwede ibalik ang time..

[WEI?]

I'd prefer to get married nalang...kapuy kaayu ng live-in.

-WEI?

[motchkatt]

live-in lng sa...try to get to know the partner alot better..... later nlng nang kasal kamo ra btaw gihapon mag-uban....

[maitoots]

murag scary nman kaau magpakasal karn panahuna oi... with all the broken marriages around hahays.. ing pakasal dako kau gasto, ing buwag dako pa jud ug gasto. i think i prefer nga mag live in lang sa.. get to know each other better before going into marriage na jud.. kay once magpakasal na dli na jud rba tawn mabakwi...

[treize]

live-in lang sa unya nag minyo og sakto nas budget...