Letting Go of the One you Love

[~AsSaSsIn_GuRl~]

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there are lots of grounds to explain the topic...


people here are usually talking bout letting go of that special someone you *had*..

how about *letting go of someone you never have? is there any reason to hold on or just let go of the thought that you can never have that person? or will you still give it a try becos you dont want to have any regrets of not trying?...hmmmm *sigh*

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There's a possibility for things to happen that way. I know because I've been in that road just a couple of months ago. I think I'll take my chance and give it a try 'coz yes I don't want to have any regrets for not at least giving it a try. It wouldn't matter to me if the other refuses, at least I gave it a try, 'di ba? It's not entirely about the "regret" part I'm talking about but the fact that you at least told that person how you really felt for him/her, the chance to express to that person your feelings... In not doing so, you'll be cheating both yourselves of the chance presented to you.

In my case, I told that person a day too late for he has already decided to let go of me. I was utterly shocked and lost for words, because I have already come to love this person, and have come to cherrish his presence. I admit that I still miss him, because after all, he's still my friend (well at least to my knowledge, he is). Pero siguro hindi lang talaga kami para sa isa't-isa. It was really painful because I felt like being cheated on my chance to tell express to him how I really felt, napa-iyak pa nga ako. I dunno, but I think it was really for the best.... as days pass I was even more convinced of that thought, and I was right, it was for the best. Just recently, I've learned that he already had a girlfriend and I'm happy for him.

As for me, I'm happy with my lot in life right now kahit walang boyfriend... I'm on a journey right now, a journey to self-discovery 'coz during my last relationship I kinda lost myself... In a way it was a blessing for me and now things are really going smoothly in my life... I also firgured, how can you actually let go of someone when you never really had him? 'Di ba parang pointless? (Now I think I'm already babbling and making no sense at all!!!) =0)

[giver_bert]

Imagine this. In your hand is a very precious creation, so fragile, so valuable that if you keep on holding, it would either stay or fall apart. But you loved this creature so much, so much that letting it go would be like letting go of your life as well. So much that sometimes you wished it would be there forever. So much that you tend to be selfish at times so as you could make it stay for as long as you like. We all wish something “so good” could be forever?

Letting go of someone doesn't necessarily mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back. It is not just setting the other person free (in the real sense of it), but it is also setting yourself free from all animosity, revulsion, and resentment that was long kept in your heart. You have to let go because the bitterness often puts away the strengths and weakens the littlest hope, making our lives more miserable than ever. Worst, presenting yourself as the “most affected one” sets the nastiest impression of all time--whatta a loser!

The trick there is...always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. <hope you will read this also pink_shadows>

[zer0_cooL]

well... if its better for him not to have me in his life anymore then fine i will let him go... dli ko mamugos ug tao na wala gusto nako

[Perfect_Guy]

nya guys, sakit man gud.. you'll last for a day then the next morning, thinking that you'll be alone for who knows how long, murag gusto dayon ka makigbalik.. ambot oy.. basin ako ra..

[saulrhyz]

i don't want to let go.. specially when i know that we're about to make the biggest mistake of our lives..

<<----caught in this web...

[jeppoy]

i am currently in the situation of deciding either to hold on or to let go of someone i truly love...i cant see the answers to my problems right now, i have tried to fix things up, i have done things that i did not imagine i can do...maybe i just love her so much...i have played scenarios in my mind of letting her go but it really hurts....it really really hurts just thinking about the act of letting go...i can still feel that it can be fix but because of our distance i cant properly lay down the solution to our problem...

i have prayed every night to give me answers to this problem....maybe i just have to wait a little bit more for the answer...i will fight for my love and letting go will be my final act of love if it is really not going to work out anymore but till then i will make her feel important and wanted and LOVED....by doing the things that she likes.....

unsay matawag ninyo nko?

[venice413]

as the song goes... if you love someone, set him/her free. If he/she comes back, then it's meant to be...

[tikboy]

letting go for a reason? hmm everything has a reason.. may it be... holding on.. or letting go.. you hold on coz you have a reason to hold on...you love her.. you need her.. thats ur reason.. you let go coz its not meant to be.. coz you fall out of love... thats ur reason....So everything has a reason..

[jeppoy]

that is why im holding on because i love her, that is my reason....she is just confused right now....she is enjoying herself and the result is confusion....i know she will come to her senses soon...and im here to love her more....

[cLowNanGeL]

" Sometimes life throws So much at us… We afraid we won’t be able to hold on... Remember everything in life happens for a reason and that GOD WILL NEVER GIVE US MORE THAN WE CAN HANDLE. Pain is just another way of proving ourselves just how strong we truly are. "

this is really correct..

very correct...

everything happens for a reason,verything happen in its time..