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Originally Posted by
jdbebz
im 19 and shes 18 nga na pregnant sxa karon
ok ra man nako nga mahimo nako nga daddy ug sxa ok ra pod nya nga mahimong mommy BUT unsaon nako pag tell sa akong parents na naka pa buntis ko im affraid man gud nga mawala ang ilang suporta . . .
nag skoll pa bya ko then wala trabaho and also my gf stop na sa skol. .
im the only boy in my family. . .
mu suport pa kaha akong parents. .sa mga gastos ?
madawat pa kayha ko nila. . ?
1 month pa ang tyan sa akong gf wala man sad koy balak nga ipa abort kay ganahan man ko sa baby
by the way: special thnx to istorya.net nga maka share ko sa akong 1st tym nga problema
pls post your advice to me and sugest. . . and be serious
ur situation is no longer uncommon. daghan na na nahitabo. but still it's very unfortunate for the both of you. you have just cross over your youthful years and trust me, you'll be begging for it forever. what you did was not wrong if it was the result of your love pero kung lain gani, lahi na pud na. even though you like to have a baby,it doesn't mean na okay ra tanan. you are still a burden to your family, their obligations r not yet done. but it seems you have ended their obligations. You MUST tell your family as one, dili ky mama o papa una. face the consequences gyud ka. you have to put yourself below them. i'm sure you will really get it from them. fathers usually understnd better than moms. hopefully your parents will support your new family so that you can continue your studies. kung mutabag cila, then it will b a privilege.you no longer have rights to call for support. you have to waitfor support. then i guess, you must finish school, balance your time, and you have to be more mature than your age. i know a lot of new dads who are totally irresponsible, they think their babies are toys or pets. you will get pass this,i'm sure. a baby is still a blessing inspite of your perceive problem, just pray for strength bro... congrats sa baby!