UnsaY BaTi Sa SobRa Ka Bo-Otan? TurN-Off DiaY JuD Na? :-(

[vahnhelsing]

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walay bati sa kabootan. Nungka kini nahimong babag alang aron makakaplag
ug hinigugma. Usa kini sa mga bilinhon nga butang. Kinsa ba gud uroy nga
lalaki ang gusto ug maldita, erehis,ug tampalasan nga hinigugma. Tingali
panglantaw sa uban nga laay ikakuyog ang mga bootan apan makasalig ikaw
nga nungka mabinoangan. Mahimong ibilin sa balay nga walay pagduha-duha.
Bilinhon ang sama kanimo inday, dili mo angay ikabalaka ang imong kahimtang,
pagpabiling dalagang ulay. May mga butang nga angay mo kab-oton aron ang
makakaplag ug hinigugmangmahimong mopangga kanimo ug tiunay. TIma-e usab,
sama kaninyo mga eba, kaming mga lalaki inanay nausab na ang panglantaw kabahin
sa gugma ug ang mga hiyas nga makadugang sa among kahingawa nganha kaninyo.

[dansoi_1234]

I had drinks with my friends last night. And LOVE has always been the staple of every drinking sessions, right? Then I became the hotseat since most of my friends are married and have gfs/bfs. They have all these conclusions that I'm too picky, too much of a workaholic and even too good -- all these reasons why I am still single.

What didn't sit well on me is the last remark,

"Bootan ra kaayo ka Bey. Ma-guilty magbinoang nimo ang laki nimo mao na dili nalang sila nimo."

"Pag minaldita lageh, tan-awa, dili ka buwi-an."

Toinks!

Ing-ana diay na? all the while I thought that's the usual benchmark for anyone if they are searching for their possible mates... At the back of my mind, I was asking who in the right mind would want for a really mean partner?

Or could I be wrong? what do you think guys? Are my friends right?

Turn-off jud ang bootan?

Ok rman na ang buotan oi.. dpende rajud na kng unsa gusto sa usa ka tao.. Wla palng jud cgro naabot.. Pero kng pili.an jud ka mao nay lisod kay basin di na nya nimo makita ang naa ra sa kilid2x nimo ky taas ra kaau imo pananaw..

[silentsky_042]

BEYEE!!!!!! dont worry, endangered ra tang mga buotan, but not yet extinct.......

I know what you are feeling, I was also in that position before(still am).... Like naa goy nakig-buwag nako, og ang iyang reason "Buotan ra kaayo ka"......like sh*t!.......hahahahhahaha but that is past.....

I also got a lot of suggestions from friends like; Tiraha lage dayon! awa di na gud na mawagtang nimo. Or, buotan kaayo ka gud, suwayi og binoang, diba mao pay mo gukod nimo....... (all proven true by themselves). And I really got jealous of them. Like I'm doing my best to stay good, but no one won't stay with me. And they are doing everything that the devil whispers into their ear, and still get a lot of girls "crying over them"......hahahahahhahahah

But then that is life, they are them, and I am me...... Just stick to what you are....why would you fix yourself when you are not broken in the first place. Or rather, why would you intentionally break yourself, when you are already wonderful naturally...... Just be yourself!

Besides, you don't want a partner who likes a shitty you. Right?

[beyee]

So true, bro/sis

Well, one thing I've learned about human nature is that
we are somehow living our lives with different preferences
as to whom we complement our personalities too.

To each his own ika nga... Whatever floats our boat, we stick
to that... even if it doesn't work for some. That's why it answers
now to my question at hand.

How come others don't appreciate the good ones who put them on
a pedestal and rather go for some who would hurt them the most?

[silentsky_042]

Bro ko.....hahahahahahahhaha, true2...you will definitely find someone who will be so blessed and happy to have you...... just like me, i found a woman who appreciates what I am....and running 2.25 years now.... OH YEAH!!!!!! hehehehehhehehe,

OT, YES!!!!! this is my 500th post.........mo senior na tawn......hahahahahahhahaha

[beyee]

That's so great to hear bro!
Celebrate each day with your blessing hehehe...

Yeah, I still believe that day will come and when
it does, I know it's for keeps ^.^

[NAN_WEN]

maam beyee...ako ganahan kog buotan..nya saman makig sabot ka nako? heheheh ^___^

[S i L e N c E]

unsa naman TS? na.a nakay pares? kay 2010 paman ni imo thread. Pero kung wala pa. Aw im just a pm away. Haha.

[aeschylus007]

basin naa jud something nimo beyee na wala nya ganahe.. basin iya ra grason ang imong pagkabuotan.. btaw.. wala ghapon ka kita og lain?

[Bricksand]

LOL chicksboy jud intawon ni duwa ai...

Don't worry TS moabot ra jud na cia....niabot naman tingali wa lng jud nimo natagad.