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Originally Posted by
Blue_Angel00
but hes proving me right now that he's worth the chance...its just an infatuation ra daw and nadala ra cya....i know he loves me much kay ma feel man nko...& im considering also the possibility na bcoz we're together for quite some time already (almost 10yrs)...basin in some ways na boringan cya...
he is proving to you that he is worth a second chance?? i dunno but 10 years is already a lot of time that has already been wasted with someone who cheated you in the end...
what i would do is i would see how serious he is in proving that he is worth a second chance.. if he got infatuated before, what will keep him from being infatuated and "madala" again?
dont give him the chance to be in a relationship with you just yet.. give him the chance to prove it jud na dili siya mangita ug lain babae... worst case scenario.. magkadayon mo.. 30 years na.. then one day you find out na naa siya lain family or something.. sayang jud kaayo ang imo life kung ingon ana ang ending...
let him prove himself to you over a long period of time.. coz if he really really really changed..he will continue to prove himself no matter how long it takes.. HE WILL NOT GIVE UP.. but if he stops fighting for you in 3 months time only.. "how you do anything is how you do everything" think long term...
best case scenario he really changed.. he realized he shouldnt take you for granted and is willing to do everything to prove himself to you