UnsaY BaTi Sa SobRa Ka Bo-Otan? TurN-Off DiaY JuD Na? :-(

[beyee]

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Ngilo.com man diay nang NBK and NBT lols

I'm all down when it comes to falling in love being that I'm a hopeless
romantic ^.^ I may be hurt from the last relationship that I had in the
past but that didn't stop me from having faith that love will come in
time.. Just that I always end up getting this remark that "you're too
"Manang" or too "boutan" so guys find it not challenging enough coz
it's boring... Morag stereotyping ang gawas bah lols.

Anyway, I know myself better and I don't have to change to get someone's
approval nor a guy's affection. It's bad enough to be someone whom you're
not and worse, not loving your true self in the end.

[dmelsie]

@beyee pag Search na lang PDF ani nga Book oh para dali ka makasabot about ana sobra ka bootan

Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

[beyee]

^^ hehehe.. Thnx for the pimp, Mel

[B-and-C]

bati ra jud ang sobra ka buotan kay murag wlay baruganan,..

[Bricksand]

Ngilo.com man diay nang NBK and NBT lols

I'm all down when it comes to falling in love being that I'm a hopeless
romantic ^.^ I may be hurt from the last relationship that I had in the
past but that didn't stop me from having faith that love will come in
time.. Just that I always end up getting this remark that "you're too
"Manang" or too "boutan" so guys find it not challenging enough coz
it's boring... Morag stereotyping ang gawas bah lols.

Anyway, I know myself better and I don't have to change to get someone's
approval nor a guy's affection. It's bad enough to be someone whom you're
not and worse, not loving your true self in the end.

Indeed CHANGE is needed my lady... let me share this...

ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?


During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.

Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ¦

[whiteKelso]

dont worry ts, i like girls who are kind and considerate, i hope managhan mo...hehe

[lovelygirl]

I had drinks with my friends last night. And LOVE has always been the staple of every drinking sessions, right? Then I became the hotseat since most of my friends are married and have gfs/bfs. They have all these conclusions that I'm too picky, too much of a workaholic and even too good -- all these reasons why I am still single.

What didn't sit well on me is the last remark,

"Bootan ra kaayo ka Bey. Ma-guilty magbinoang nimo ang laki nimo mao na dili nalang sila nimo."

"Pag minaldita lageh, tan-awa, dili ka buwi-an."

Toinks!

Ing-ana diay na? all the while I thought that's the usual benchmark for anyone if they are searching for their possible mates... At the back of my mind, I was asking who in the right mind would want for a really mean partner?

Or could I be wrong? what do you think guys? Are my friends right?

Turn-off jud ang bootan?

Dili turn off oi..katahaan lang ka..mag duha duha ug panguyab ang lalaki nimu ky mahadlok mabasted...ky sa ilang panan-aw nimu serious type ka..kasagaran sa mga lalaki didto man sila sa mga game na girl..hangtud mao nalang nuon ilang makadayon imbes ang plano ra nila mag dula dula ra sa feelings sa girls...

wla pa siguro jud naabot ang lalaki na dili mataha mo duol nimu...tagae lang sad pud ug chance kung moabot man gani...
basi d sad ka mamansin maong imbes manguyab d nalang ky basi mabasted...

[Passport]

Naa bay buotan?

Maski pari man gani naay issues...

Buotan, like beauty is relative.

Wa pa lang jud niabot ang para nimo...

or perhaps, wala gyud ..

[silent-kill]

maybe you are looking for the right guy in the wrong places?

[<SMILE>]

Mas maayo diay nga naay pagka rogue gamay,
kanang mo-fight na sa mga butang nga they should have,
o mo-defend with total enthusiasm the things that they do already have.