Kulang ba sa parok sa utok? Or masabtan ra kay gugma?

[THE KID]

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aw nendot man ng in.ana nga laki pero dapat paresan nato nag tarong pud nga babay iyang pagka martyr (so to speak).

no, we cannot......

[hanzheyteta]

no, we cannot......

ha so meaning martyr pud ka tk? mao akong pagsabot. haha pls clarify

[R_sQuArEd]

aw nendot man ng in.ana nga laki pero dapat paresan nato nag tarong pud nga babay iyang pagka martyr (so to speak).

it just doesn't work that way

[hanzheyteta]

it just doesn't work that way

aw i don't know how it works. can you possibly tell me how it works? hahaha bitaw na govil na oks ani ha. pero somehow tinood pud that it doesn't work that way... mora rapud na ang guy kay gwapo nya iyang uyab kay so-so lang. balance of nature. sakto ba nga logic? na connect ra?

[naraku]

pgk.martyr nlng bai, but don't give it all kai pra atleast dili ka m.down jud ug maayo kung di nimu makuha ang gugmang gi*tay.

[dozen]

TS i understand ur situation. it is really hard to prove someone that you love the person. no matter what you do, it would seem inadequate.. no matter how much you give her reassurance, there would still be a shadow of fear and insecurities. i believe it would be best for you to reflect on what you really feel, give yourself a time to think, to assess what is really happening. after that, you guys should talk on the direction of the relationship. its not good that magbuwag and balik ra mo in a short period, its just not that easy emotionally. feelings are not light switches you can just turn on and off. learn to let her go, as they say, if you love someone, you have to learn to let them go, if she comes back then be ready to embrace her back. she also has her choices to make, on a clouded mind and heart its difficult, both of you should have a clear mind and heart when making your choices, otherwise, your choices would be as clouded as a stormy sky. clearly both of you have issues that you both need to talk about, you need to let her know how everything is making you sick and your relationship is becoming toxic. i am also not asking you to distance yourself from her, but rather, be always with her should she need you. Maybe she just need to realize the reality of your situation and she needs to resolve any issues she has with her past so that she can move forward and move on with her life. just ask yourself this TS, is what you have, your feelings, her love, ... ask yourself if its still worth fighting for. if yes, then you know what to do, if no, you also know what needs to be done. God speed TS.

[R_sQuArEd]

aw i don't know how it works. can you possibly tell me how it works? hahaha bitaw na govil na oks ani ha. pero somehow tinood pud that it doesn't work that way... mora rapud na ang guy kay gwapo nya iyang uyab kay so-so lang. balance of nature. sakto ba nga logic? na connect ra?

it usually doesn't follow...ever heard of the "battered wife syndrome"?

[hanzheyteta]

it usually doesn't follow...ever heard of the "battered wife syndrome"?

yeah, i know that. thankfully, i was never one. so kung sa laki this would be what kind of syndrome? "battered sa gugma syndrome"?

[R_sQuArEd]

yeah, i know that. thankfully, i was never one. so kung sa laki this would be what kind of syndrome? "battered sa gugma syndrome"?

i don't know the name but is works the same way...knowing that your partner is cheating on you and just allowing it to happen is emotional battering

[ngitscarlo09]

italk to papa na tS...kay maminaw ko nimo kron..232-3749..haha