The story behind the Groom and the Wedding Singer!

[beyee]

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This is going in circles.
Just an advice.

"Stop romanticizing the past. Focus on what you have now."

[iMallalone29]

I feel bad about my thread..
I don't want to create conflict guys..

But I myself is confused as well if I should stop this or whatnot...

yes, I have the right to tell my story detail per detail.. And in my partner's side, I have not hidden anything. I told him my story, and I showed him me to the very last detail. He even granted me permission to do that.

But others are right.. I may be insensitive enough in shouting to the whole world about my story.

But if I am insensitive, I could have not asked my partner's approval for posting such.


Sorry.. but until I get my partner's real thought about this, I will just leave this thread pending..

[beyee]

well, there will always be critics to anything.. whether it is a work of literature, a work of art.. or even a glass of native wine called bahal..

a fatwa was even issued for salman rushdie for his work. people sometimes impose on others their concept of "unsay naa sa lugar"


because the Jews were shouting... crucify!

Layo-a nimo og reference parts, naabot naman kang Rushdie,
what she's writing is not political satire but real people with
emotions... simple ra man.. SENSITIVITY ang in question dre.

[Passport]

Layo-a nimo og reference parts, naabot naman kang Rushdie,
what she's writing is not political satire but real people with
emotions... simple ra man.. SENSITIVITY ang in question dre.

OT:layo because you can not reach it.. i am sorry.

[laxxx]

Being truthful about everything is different from being sensitive to our partner's feelings TS. I totally understand you, swear. Buti nga na you're even asking your partner's consent about your posts. I know pumayag sya and he totally trusts you, pero dba? How would you feel if you were in his place? First, you attended the wedding na. Next, this? Please believe me when I say what you're doing is NOT wrong. Let's just be a little more sensitive. Nothing more nothing less.

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Layo-a nimo og reference parts, naabot naman kang Rushdie,
what she's writing is not political satire but real people with
emotions... simple ra man.. SENSITIVITY ang in question dre.

Layo because he himself is insensitive. He doesn't get what we're saying. It's as if we're throwing all the rocks at TS. Only point is SENSITIVITY. MyGod is that so hard to understand?

[beyee]

Worst case scenario here...

The partner will look for another who will appreciate him more
and sans the extra baggage without having to be asked if it's
okay to talk about the ex on a pretense that she has truly
moved on...

Then you'll ask what's his excuse for going out with another.

How would you feel if he tells you,

"I'm not really sure how you feel about me. Since you're all too
caught up with your past when all I ever did was understand
and support your healing process."

My point is, no matter how many times he would say, he's okay
with it... naay sukdulan ang tawo, mapol-an jud sila.

[vahnhelsing]

lahi lahi tag panglantaw..

dako akong pagdayeg sa kaagi ni ts. Tood wala ako kasinati sa iyahang kaagi apan may gutlo nga matandog
akong galamhan sa iyahang sugilanon. Kun ugaling ako ang iyahang kapikas karon makadayeg ba kaha ako
sa iyahang nalatid dri? Pagkalisod tubagon. Maanindot kining iyahang sugilanon kun natago niya ang iyahang
pagkatawo sama sa ubang magtatampo.. Hinaot ato sad hatagan ug respeto ang ubang magtatampo, dili
lamang nag nagpasiugda sa kutay ug ang mga tawo nga kabahin sa iyahang sugilanon.

[ohohoy]

end of the story wala ko kaabot, hehe.. but beyee is right respect your present partner

[manoy15]

TS i read your posts esp. this story of yours, tbh, morag jud siya ug nobela, pang puli ni Juan dela cruz, pang prime time, haha anyways, tbh, i think since the very fact na you're reposting the story does it make sense na you still have feelings with the other guy? i mean everybody knows what happened diba? you said also your current partner knows all about it, He may not say something or even react to it, maybe he's just being proactive, he does not want you to see him hurting esp. and it literally does not mean that you're not hurting him, some guys just knows well how to keep the hurt inside mao jud nang kuyaw, it may cause bigger conflict in the future. I mean no dis-respect sa imong pag post sa imong story here but i guess, this second post gives me that impression nga you still have that feeling though consciously you may say na its all in the past but the power of the sub-conscious mind is different and maybe you're just suppressing it, might just be me or what, but then again, you dont need to repost, but i still give you the benefit of a doubt.

[beyee]

sayang.. i wasn't able to read it.. i'll just wait for the edited one then..

because the Jews were shouting... crucify!

Passport, your reference is way too uncalled for.
We never condemned her. Don't put words to our mouth.
Please read our comments again before making another reference.