Taasa pud sa imung suliran TS oi...Lol
but i managed to read all throughout
kanang imung problema TS, mao nay gitawag ug "nagpadalas tama" hahaha
Yes we get attracted every now and then but when we entertain that attraction it becomes something else...
basing on your story, you my friend are not in love, neither with your gf and your lady friend..you are just overwhelmed with the situation.
though i know you care for the person 'cause willing gud ka nga magbalik sila sa iyang husband...
ani na TS, of course walay laing maka decide for you ikaw ra...
think about the effects of your decision today, what will be the possible effects years after?
how will the children of your lady friend take the situation?
kung mga gagmay pa, eventually they will find out(way aso makumkum)..
consider the situation, they are legally wedd, and if her husband pursues both of you you may find yourself under criminal charges along with your lady friend.
unya iyang bana kay willing pa nga mudawat sa iya wife(meaning hugugmaan), don't you think it is unfair for her husband nga mu eksina ka?
matud pa nimu,wala juy gugma na imung miga sa iya bana..
but the very fact that she was able to sustain their relationship for several years maski nagbinutchok tong iyang bana
and that despite of it all, willing pa siya muhatag ug chance...examina na ug maayo TS...
pero ingun siya nga di siya ganahan mawala ka, of course because you comfprted her, plus ikaw ang nagpuno sa iyang mga panginahanglan
that by the way is not an assurance of Love,
Kung love jud ninyo ang usag usa, you would rather strive for fairness, Honesty, and Reason.
what you guys are doing now is completely the OPPOSITE..sorry but ikaw ra muy nagstorya sa inyong gipangbuhat..hahaha
well naa man juy sitwasyon nga napugos ug minyo, way nabuhat..way gugma etc etc
dunay sakto nga paagi...lisud ,taas ug hasol unya MAHAL...Yes i am talking about annulment
BUT? di na ing ana kadali like magfile lang sila then the next day approved na!
by what you said, Love ninyo ang usag usa, kung karun pa lang daan...hasolan namu maghuna-huna sa annulment
that all the more Proves that what you guys feel right now is NOT love kung dili maguwang lang na gamay sa Biga...Lol
mao karun, samtang wa pa mu gikiha sa bana sa imung miga...
samtang gagmay pa ang mga bata
samtang wa pa kahibaw ang katilingban
samtang naa pay chance mag bag.o
undangi na na TS
unfair sa iyang bana, unfair sa iya, unfair sa iyang mga anak,unfair sa imung uyab ug labaw nga unfair sa imohang kaugalingun...
i understand you may have a different point of view about what Love is, we may be judges on our own fellings
but there is a supreme Judge who sees all things.. Let's see what He says about Love..
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It DOES NOT DISHONOR others, it is NOT SELF-SEEKING, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does NOT delight in evil but rejoices with the TRUTH. It always PROTECTS, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
yours truly,
PAPA JOE
Lol
hahahaha