pro live-in or anti live-in?

[abulang]

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Mas pro ko labi if your living abroad. Maka save pamo kwarto, kay naa man ka kashare sa rent ug sa groceries. So the more savings mas dali ra ang pagplano sa pagpakasal if ever maka decide na.

mao sad.. what if naa lang mo duha sa phils? unsa man imo stand?

[abulang]

...actually, kung daghan ta ug tuho-an nuh, the more ta na ma-confuse. And based sa comment sa ubos naapila ng faith sa religion. kaning faith man gud mao ra ni gadala ug libog libog nga simple ra kaaU na money ra jud ang kulang ngano ang live in (in some ways) are good and bad

naa man uban kwartahan na ga.live-in japon..practical mana na decision man jud if u realy want to know the person well.. kumbaga "test the water" first aysa ka mu.ambak.. di bya lalim kanang mga anulment.. kung wlay kwarta..no choice nlang but to live with that person for the rest of ur life..

[Vanillaskies]

Anti ko labi na wala pa mo anak. Its good kung naa jud blessing sa parents mao kasal jud daan before live together. Kung di man gani makaya sa budget wedding sa church, why not sa huwes dba? Nindot man gud na lesson na nga mahatag nimu pohon sa imu mga anak.

[nijazared]

for me noh....growing up in a conservative house...i was against it...but heck I did it with my gf and now wife...it helped us know each other more and in turn strengthened our relationship...so Pro nko karon...

[abulang]

for me noh....growing up in a conservative house...i was against it...but heck I did it with my gf and now wife...it helped us know each other more and in turn strengthened our relationship...so Pro nko karon...

agree jud ko..conservative man pud au amo family..pati sa ako partner na family.. pro lahi rman jud mag.inilhanay mo..kanang sa kinaworsan nya na side..kung madiscover na nmo daan sa wa pa no gkasal,mas maau kay naa pa option na magbulag..on the other hand, kung kasal namo unya aysa pa nmo nadiscover ang kangil.ad sa iya na batasan..wala ikaw looy kay miserable ang marriage life.. maayo ras uyab pa..

[jkhfg]

I'm not anti or pro, but we're doing it for quite some time na. haha I didn't plan this, it just happened.

[abulang]

I'm not anti or pro, but we're doing it for sometime na. haha I didn't plan this, it just happened.

same here...but more of pro nman ko.. realistic lang..lisod na magmahay after marriage..haha

[Vanillaskies]

ooops sorry doublepost.

[Vanillaskies]

agree jud ko..conservative man pud au amo family..pati sa ako partner na family.. pro lahi rman jud mag.inilhanay mo..kanang sa kinaworsan nya na side..kung madiscover na nmo daan sa wa pa no gkasal,mas maau kay naa pa option na magbulag..on the other hand, kung kasal namo unya aysa pa nmo nadiscover ang kangil.ad sa iya na batasan..wala ikaw looy kay miserable ang marriage life.. maayo ras uyab pa..

You know what, it doesn't mean nga ambi nakahibaw naka sa bati nga batasan sa imung asawa kay maglisod na ka ug buwag kay minyu namu. Hey, its a matter of acceptance kung love jud kaayu nimu imu wife, then madadaan naman lahat sa mabuting usapan. If the two of you really prioritize inyung marriage then maybe simple talk lang then everything's gonna be ok if the two of you want it too.

LOVE is ACCEPTING one another's pinakaworst attitude.

[maddox_pitt]

Carmina and zoren lived in together for 12 years so I guess it's okay..