should i wait or should i leave?

[yiennahs]

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weird, iya rason hadlok siya madamay ka?
mau rana?

[legal_cd]

wait lang usa TS, but while waiting show your support to him and that you understand him

[Osting Bongoton]

taga-i sya ug tym makahuna2 ana

[Dark]

smells fishy... hehehe try to find out something TS, dont just set around,
pwd pud true siya sa iyang gi sulti... dile pud bya na lalim sa laki ang mag ka ingon ana... it takes time to recover...
and try to find out also kung tinood ba jud na... hahaha basin its just story aron dile ka ayo sakit ang tanan... it would be a waste... for 5 yrs... whew... and in a week... hihihihi sakit jud na...

[LeeLeePot]

weird, iya rason hadlok siya madamay ka?
mau rana?

weird mu lang! madamay ko from what? i always ask him that but he won't answer me...ana lan xa, stop asking too much questions if you don't want get hurt...ana ra!

[yiennahs]

weird mu lang! madamay ko from what? i always ask him that but he won't answer me...ana lan xa, stop asking too much questions if you don't want get hurt...ana ra!

mau ng lakiha naa sa imo ava?

[LeeLeePot]

Can't help but smile. Sorry.

First of all, how strong is your relationship?

About the kid, how about go and find the girl. Meet her up and ask the other side of the story. Girl's good with intuition as they may say, so see it yourself. If you can see the kid, better.

About your bf telling you he's willing to let you go, why not tell him "did I ask for it?"

If something's bothering him, then sit and talk about it. Try not to force him but instead, let him know that you will listen to whatever he has to say and you will decide afterward.

It's just that, whatever we tell you doesn't directly do anything but to ease your mind, or otherwise. You are the one who can say if your guy's lying or what. I know it's confusing but if he's hard enough to let you go then why not accept it? It means, love and the 5years of you being together aren't enough to make your relationship work.

Come on lee, you can be better than this.

i've already done this for the last three days..ang makipagstorya but everytime i wanted to talk, he wouldn't want to...the truth is sa kadaghan sa among naagian nga pagsuway,it is always me nga magpropose nga mubuhi nako nia and i don't want to be with him...xa ang nagcge ug hang on sa ako and it would come to the point na muhilak na xa ug makilooy nga d nako xa byaan and deep inside, gikilig jud ko and i felt he loves me jud...somehow when he told me last sunday that he was giving me what i want and that he was letting me go, i was caught offguard..this is the first time man gud na we would live under the same roof and living with him was a blast (cleaning the house together, he cooks for me, he takes of my killer heels when i come home to work, he even promised to buy me a persian cat... )..then nashock ko, the next day, nakigbulag na... how am i supposed to understand his reasons kung d man xa mutubag sa ako... tong niamin lan gne xa nga naa diay xai anak, need pa nako makiluoy para lan matubag ko nia. he haven't even seen the girl..ang nagpahibalo lan nga naa xa anak kai katong common friend nila nga bag-o ra nia nakita after so many years...daghan jud loopholes iyang mga rason...all i can do is wait for the right time kung when muhupa nang storm nga gatuyok sa iyang mind...he said, in verbatim, that he wants to let me go kai wala daw ko sa iyang hunahuna karong mga panahuna. what the waffle?!

[LeeLeePot]

mau ng lakiha naa sa imo ava?

nope..the guy in my ava is gay..hehehe...nagselos lan nuon akong ex ana nia because we were sooo close...

[Baeybe_Bryce]

i've already done this for the last three days..ang makipagstorya but everytime i wanted to talk, he wouldn't want to...the truth is sa kadaghan sa among naagian nga pagsuway,it is always me nga magpropose nga mubuhi nako nia and i don't want to be with him...xa ang nagcge ug hang on sa ako and it would come to the point na muhilak na xa ug makilooy nga d nako xa byaan and deep inside, gikilig jud ko and i felt he loves me jud...somehow when he told me last sunday that he was giving me what i want and that he was letting me go, i was caught offguard..this is the first time man gud na we would live under the same roof and living with him was a blast (cleaning the house together, he cooks for me, he takes of my killer heels when i come home to work, he even promised to buy me a persian cat... )..then nashock ko, the next day, nakigbulag na... how am i supposed to understand his reasons kung d man xa mutubag sa ako... tong niamin lan gne xa nga naa diay xai anak, need pa nako makiluoy para lan matubag ko nia. he haven't even seen the girl..ang nagpahibalo lan nga naa xa anak kai katong common friend nila nga bag-o ra nia nakita after so many years...daghan jud loopholes iyang mga rason...all i can do is wait for the right time kung when muhupa nang storm nga gatuyok sa iyang mind...he said, in verbatim, that he wants to let me go kai wala daw ko sa iyang hunahuna karong mga panahuna. what the waffle?!

Then more of he's more confuse than what he makes you. How about give him time, let it be. It all boils down to what kind of guy he is, give him what he want. Be firm though it hurts.

What do you like, living in a relationship full of doubts and mistrusts OR grow up?

You know, someday he might realize what kind of fool he is and what he done to you isn't as right as he think it is. Cool down and let him realize it himself. Give him time to be a man worthy of this thread.

[LeeLeePot]

Then more of he's more confuse than what he makes you. How about give him time, let it be. It all boils down to what kind of guy he is, give him what he want. Be firm though it hurts.

What do you like, living in a relationship full of doubts and mistrusts OR grow up?

You know, someday he might realize what kind of fool he is and what he done to you isn't as right as he think it is. Cool down and let him realize it himself. Give him time to be a man worthy of this thread.

yep..i decided to let him go FOR AWHILE. i can feel that he loves me..and i get it when he said he can't think of me because of too much trouble he's having right now so i am gonna let him be.. he promised naman na mubalik xaa..so maghuwat ko ani kutob birthday nako..i can't wait forever...so sa birthday nako, either muinom ko to celebrate his come back or muinom ko to mourn for him (murag namatyan)... thanks kaayo sa mga advise ninyo...i just need help deciphering what really runs in his head kai fragments rai makuha nako nia...heheh