Why do nice guys finish last? Hehehe..

[yiennahs]

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Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last With Women?
Are women LYING when they claim to want a nice guy as a boyfriend, instead of a bad boy, jerk or sleazy guy?

When asked what she wants in a man, a woman will usually say something like, “I just want a nice guy ...someone who cares and who listens” but the SAME women will then do the OPPOSITE and date a bad boy, a jerk...or a guy who doesn't treat her well.

What is going on there?! Are women lying when they claim to want a 'nice' guy? Not at all. You see, when a woman says, "I just want a nice guy" she really does mean it. However, most guys confuse being a 'nice guy' with being really, really nice to a woman...and that's where the problems begin and why most nice guys finish last with women.

When a woman refers to a nice guy she is NOT referring to the type of 'nice guy' who:

* Is nervous around women.
* Is shy in social situations.
* Is intimidated by women and feels like he needs to impress them.
* Doesn't know what to say to women (usually linked into trying to impress women).
* Is too nice to women, like he would be to his grandmother.
* Calls women too often, not allowing them to miss him.
* Tells women that he has 'feelings' for them too early.
* Behaves submissively or weakly around women.
* Tends to accepts a woman's demands, just so she will spend time with him or continue talking to him.
* Becomes a 'doormat' for women and puts his own needs aside.
* Listens to all of woman's problems and discusses them in the same way her girlfriends would.
* Gives away his power to women, and allows women to become the 'boss'.
* Asks a woman what she wants to do, instead of being a man and taking the lead on dates and in relationships.

When used in combination, the behaviors and actions listed above will absolutely DESTROY the attraction a woman feels for you. Ultimately, it goes against everything that women are naturally attracted to in a man.

Now that we have talked about what women DON'T want in a nice guy, what DO they want? A woman's version of a nice guy is a man who:

* Is a good guy, but is not a pushover or doormat for women or people to walk all over.
* Is confident around women.
* Is confident around other guys.
* Is charming.
* Knows how to behave like a 'challenge'.
* Takes on the masculine role in an interaction, on a date or in a relationship.
* Respects women and enjoys their company, but also gives plenty of time and attention to his life and
what he's achieving/trying to achieve.
* Uses humor in a confident, attractive way.
* Confidently makes conversation in an interesting way with women.

Source: Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last With Women?

Aww ana diay na.? Now I know why most nice guys finish last when it comes to women. Hehehe..

mao diay nainlab ko nimo pag ayo
Respects women and enjoys their company, but also gives plenty of time and attention to his life and
what he's achieving/trying to achieve. - super like

[madz_makatigbas]

gus2 ra man mostly sa mga girls..kay guy nga pede mahimong alipin XD....

some may deny it ...

[ahyango]

Nice guys finish last but gets remembered for a long time.. NOT NICE guys finish first and die dirst as well.

[genzu73]

dili ko nice guy pero im always at last lagi. dili q tou TS ui.

[free_hugs]

nice guy man daw ko ingun nila pero last man ko permi.... paita...

[rhenz143]

agree jud ko..murag praktikal naman pud ni...

[daredavid]

dili ko nice guy pero im always at last lagi. dili q tou TS ui.

Aww pareha diay tang duha, dili nice guy pero pirme pud last. apir beh. hehe.. No worries, daghan bitaw tah. hehehe..

[daredavid]

nice guy man daw ko ingun nila pero last man ko permi.... paita...

Mao gani... Usa ka sa mga gipasabot sa topic sa author.

[rhenz143]

naa koy gf 2x before nakigbreak xa nako kay sobra ra daw ko kabootan? hehe makatawa ko sa reason coz di man ko buutan im just doing my part as bf ing-ane man jud ko..cguro ganahan xa kana mejo bogoy tan-awun o chikboy unsaon man di man ko ing-ana..i realized nga sakto xa mejo nwala najud akong pride ato ug bati pud cguro nang relasyon nga walay away hehe..mao rapud na akoang opinyon base on my experience..

[lifebook11]

nice guys finish last kay dili man mutake sa challenge nga basin mawala ang girl... and dili man sad mga baga ug nawng ang mga nice guy. mao na ako nakatunan sa ako pagseryoso sa ako ex, maypa lagi naging playboy na lang ko niya para dili ingani kasakit.