Reasonable or not??

[Su-Hae]

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For me it is..ky if I were in your position I'll do the same thing..start a new life in a place where no one knows you.. but u can always go back when the pain is gone..

[abewtifulmind]

Is it reasonable if i will say "mo abroad nalang ko kay na broken heart ko sa cebu" .
I have a good job in cebu and if mo abroad ko dili na same job ako makuha.i just want to forget for a while cebu bec. medyo nasakitan ko ug maayo.i'm just worried if ma happy bako sa abroad.if it is reasonable that i will take the risk to lose my comfort just to forget the pain.naa man gud cya sa cebu and iya new gf. my 2 ex-bf is in Singapore and US so i'm not affected with them but now with him i feel like na suffocate ko sa iyang memories here plus i don't want to see them one day in malls or etc.wahhhhh..kalibog.

pareho rata og kahadlokan madame.. sa una ingon ani ko.. "what if makita nako cya with her new bf?" makaya nako? manukmag ko? maglagot? or masuko? should I go somewhere else?

pero... karon lang nako na realize... things... places... tanan nga inyong na spend together dili mo matter.. yes maka remember ka.. but kung toa ka sa gawas.. still maka remember ka kay ang memories magpabilin man.. naa sa imong mind...

miga.. sa gugma .. duha ang dapat gamiton nato..

una ang heart... because mao may una mo involve... but if you're facing pains.. and need to decide for something.. you need your mind....

well, you need to check your maturity and think every decision as much as possible.. as many as you can... nisulod ka ana sa relationship.. dapat kabalo ka nga naa juy possibilities nga masakitan ka... and since naabot naka dha... you have to face it.. you have to deal with it... yaw dagani.. yaw likaye... kay if you do.. ang level sa imong maturity... dili mo lambo... what if ang next relationship nimo.. maghatag ghapon og pains? so.. meaning.. wa man ka ka learn sa pag na una nga relationship.. so modagan lang ghapon ka sa sunod...

so.. para lang nako.. yaw pag palayo... show them how sturdy you are... show them that ni grow pud ka... sakit man jud ang kamatouran.. but we have to deal with it.. it's life... that's life.... be stong lang jud... you have your friends para maka storya ka.. sometimes talking with them.. will help you.. ay.. d jud diay sometimes.. always jud diay....

so.... be strong.. ako humana ko.. time ra ang mo heal... hulata lang... agwantaha ang sakit kay mao man jud na ang natural feeling nga imong ma feel kung nisulod ka ana.. ana rana ka simple.. accept lang sa realities...

[lovelots23]

Thanks to All.
@linsey: hmm, a challenge in my part
@kolot182: if naa good offer, i think why not grab the opportunity.
@colorblue: mao sad akong gi hunahuna nga basin time for me to fly na that's why it happen.
@reginakrys: that's the one problem na lisod, if bati akong environment didto, mau lang if nindot.
@raine: i will wish nalang dili mi magkita even if naka recover nako.i just want to forget.
@su-hae: i think lisod na i go back ug cebu once mo decide na ug gawas bec. of job availability.

[kitine]

TS if u think its for the best... then do wat u think is good for you

[hobie]

@TS ..mao sab ni ako situation now faet .. I have a good job right now as a nurse in a regional hospital, I'm very much willing to go away and be somewhere away from my current city. Aggressive kau ko nangita ug work karon bahalag mag start from scratch like mg volunteer

[Boyet4istorya]

ask God for strength ad wisdom...

[lovelots23]

pareho rata og kahadlokan madame.. sa una ingon ani ko.. "what if makita nako cya with her new bf?" makaya nako? manukmag ko? maglagot? or masuko? should I go somewhere else?

pero... karon lang nako na realize... things... places... tanan nga inyong na spend together dili mo matter.. yes maka remember ka.. but kung toa ka sa gawas.. still maka remember ka kay ang memories magpabilin man.. naa sa imong mind...

miga.. sa gugma .. duha ang dapat gamiton nato..

una ang heart... because mao may una mo involve... but if you're facing pains.. and need to decide for something.. you need your mind....

well, you need to check your maturity and think every decision as much as possible.. as many as you can... nisulod ka ana sa relationship.. dapat kabalo ka nga naa juy possibilities nga masakitan ka... and since naabot naka dha... you have to face it.. you have to deal with it... yaw dagani.. yaw likaye... kay if you do.. ang level sa imong maturity... dili mo lambo... what if ang next relationship nimo.. maghatag ghapon og pains? so.. meaning.. wa man ka ka learn sa pag na una nga relationship.. so modagan lang ghapon ka sa sunod...

so.. para lang nako.. yaw pag palayo... show them how sturdy you are... show them that ni grow pud ka... sakit man jud ang kamatouran.. but we have to deal with it.. it's life... that's life.... be stong lang jud... you have your friends para maka storya ka.. sometimes talking with them.. will help you.. ay.. d jud diay sometimes.. always jud diay....

so.... be strong.. ako humana ko.. time ra ang mo heal... hulata lang... agwantaha ang sakit kay mao man jud na ang natural feeling nga imong ma feel kung nisulod ka ana.. ana rana ka simple.. accept lang sa realities...

@abewtifulmind:thanks a lot for the wisdom.i think you are right.i'm coward and immatured.i should face it and accept the reality.i just hope i will be stronger.my only wish is to recover soon.i will try to change,instead of being homebody i will be meeting friends.

[lovelots23]

ask God for strength ad wisdom...

@boyet: thanks. yah, God is the answer. I will seek for his will.

[lovelots23]

@TS ..mao sab ni ako situation now faet .. I have a good job right now as a nurse in a regional hospital, I'm very much willing to go away and be somewhere away from my current city. Aggressive kau ko nangita ug work karon bahalag mag start from scratch like mg volunteer

@hobie: sad to hear that.hope we will be okay and can move on as soon as possible.

[littlelad]

its reasonable to move on,..in order for you to heal the pain you got there

but it is not necessary to go abroard just to forget the pain,..

you can go somewhere else here in the Philippines outside Cebu,..

you can work sa Davao, Cagayan de Oro,...kundi sa Manila perhaps,..