over come my fear

[janvier]

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bro think not just twice..but many times..try to balance which one is much more close to your heart..then go for it..

[iMAX]

no,coz i have gay phobia and i had countless experiences og gays when i was little,and up until now..na guidance councilor nagud ko ana pag college,kay g tripan ko ug 3 ka bayut nga taga same school rasad..nya kana laging bayut,basta kuyog sa barkada,garaon man kaayu..pataka lag flirt2x nya manghikap sa shoulders,etc..ako nasukmagan jud,dislocated ang bone marrow sa ilong..i dont condemn u or anything,but as much as possible,mu avoid jud ko ug gays..kay i have never encountered a gay person na e keep to themselves lang ilang urges or admiration..mu kidhat man jud,or mgpatagad..

so no,if i was ur friend,bestfriend,etc,i couldnt accept u as a friend..nada..zero..forget we ever became friends..sorry,but lahi2x jud na ang taw..

but i agree with most of the answers,dont keep it to yourself..tell some 1 about it..ur mom would be the perfect person u shud share it to..

brod di pd ko ing ana ka bayot nga lust ray gi apas... besides naa koy gf na mao na nag lisud nako kay i really2x love her but it is so unfair for her nga di ko tinood nya... but i'm also afraid much afraid that she will leave me and the people sorrounds will change ang pag tagad nila nako kay ing ani ko...

don't kno kung unsa reaction sa ako mom...

maldita or isog imong mama bro?

i don' kno... but i'm sure she won't like it... don't like to disappoint my family specially my parents...

[iMAX]

@ all: i've been thinking about so long, at 1st gibali wala ra ni nako kay i kno kung unsa jud ko... but now it really disturbs me a lot... maybe i am a double blade, maya or wat ever u want to call it...

[Mikelyap]

when did you learn about this bro? basin mag lisod ka na gawas sa situation better say it now : )

[iMAX]

pag college nako 18-19... lisud ug kapoy kay na in between ka sa duha ka personality den wa kay ma daganan or mapagawsan sa imong kalagot sa imong self y na ing ani ko...

[Blackjellybean27]

i know most people here would disagree with me if i tell you that there's nothing wrong with being gay...
as long as you're a good person, you didn't kill anybody or the like, then you're okay...

i wish you good luck in your endeavors bro... or ses! hehehe... bitaw, i hope you will find the strength to tell your loved ones...
about your question, at first i would be shocked, hurt even.. but eventually there's nothing i can do but to accept you... and welcome the "bebe gandanghari" in you

[iMAX]

thanks everyone!

[carbrill]

double blade tawag ana...

ok ra na du daghan na man rn...

[tikLish]

teLL your gf na..i know nakabantay nasad na xa nimo nga gay ka..ahihi..

[shades_of_pink]

you have to weigh the consequences, there's nothing wrong being gay or double-blade but if it will hurt the people you love it's another story.