para nku ang pinaka root problem sa nganu magCheat ang isa sa relationship kai kulang ra sa communication ug openness sa mgpartner.. if dli ka satisfied sa imu partner, or kulangan ra ka sa iyang gpakita, or ngalisud naka sa situation ninyo.. y man dli istoryahan para makasabot xa sa imu gabati and makadungog pud ka sa iya side.. in that way dli na mo lead into cheating kai if dli gyud mo mgkasinabot sa inyo problem, unsa pa may dugayan.. magbulag para mangita npud ug lain.. =p
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06-14-2010, 09:51 PM #21Elite Member
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06-14-2010, 09:53 PM #22Junior Member
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ang psychology of cheating, in my opinion is kana bang ang taw mangita jud na ug something nga wala niya matagam-tami. in ur friends case, gwapa,caring, loving, dili maldita, maka satisfy siya sa iya partner sa bed, so in short murag naa na tanan ani na girl but nganu mo cheat paman ang guy? maybe because of these qualities niya, maybe the guy is looking for someone na medyo opposite gamay or maybe the guy is just looking for adventure or maybe the guy just want to prove himself about his masculinity or maybe peer pressure or maybe naa lain factor(s) aside from the ones na na mentioned above na wala ka or lain mga taw outside sa ila relationship na nakapa make sa guy na mo cheat.
Originally Posted by Blackjellybean27
im not trying to defend sa mga taw na ni cheat or nag encourage ko na mo cheat ha, ang ako lang is to take a look on the entire sociophysiological reason(s) behind cheating.
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06-14-2010, 10:43 PM #23C.I.A.
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yup, i know you're not encouraging cheating... Originally Posted by pablingz
naa baya ko disclaimer sa post ko na don't judge people's opinion, so mao na i hope to get honest answers from people...
i read on that cheating thing as well, na main reason why a guy (who's got an "almost perfect" gf/wife) still cheats on her is because he needs to prove his masculinity or worth or self esteem... in other words, needs to have some kind of "reserve" just in case the girl bails out on him.. i don't blame naman the guy in that case, but then what good is a relationship if he doesn't trust her dba?
thanks for your opinion bro
naluoy lang ko sa mga people who get cheated on...
i've learned my lesson on cheating as well... will never do that ever again!
also, i know someone who got cheated on, but why does he choose to cheat on his gf gihapon? i mean dba, dapat na feel na unsay kasakit and all, why cheat on his gf? hahay, is that revenge? kaluoy pod sa gf nya oi..
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06-14-2010, 10:50 PM #24C.I.A.
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i agree sis... Originally Posted by hanamari
it's better to talk it out, tell your partner the truth of what's bothering you instead of maghilom ra...
communication is the best solution to all problems
plus, if the cheater doesn't like/love his/her partner anymore it's better he/she leaves him.. it'll be painful for the partner, but at least he/she didn't cheat.
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06-14-2010, 10:53 PM #25C.I.A.
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Originally Posted by Blackjellybean27
----usahay pud one of the reason nganung mangita lain kay napul-an na ang guy or wala na na happy sa iyang uyab or wife..
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06-14-2010, 11:53 PM #26C.I.A.
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daghana issue na ang lalake maoy ga cheat ... why not also make an issue sa mga babae diha cge ga cheat or in other words cgeg bilangkad ni bisankinsang laki diha
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06-15-2010, 12:08 AM #27Junior Member
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lami man jud ning mga babae nga dili ato-a diba
hehehehe! agree? or disagree hahaha
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06-15-2010, 12:27 AM #28Junior Member
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sa kadtong n.ingon or murag n.ingon nga 'natural ra na'
what if,
you have found the ONE, and would not want to let him/her go because you really love that person
but she/he cheats on you..
would you still accept the reason nga 'natural ra na' ?
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06-15-2010, 12:30 AM #29C.I.A.
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no i wont accept that ... angay na ipasalvage
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06-15-2010, 12:46 AM #30Junior Member
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ako answer sa imu question na "why does he choose to cheat on his gf gihapon?"... for me is not really a revenge but rather a defense mechanism. nakasuway naman gud siya na ni naay ni cheat niya so for him medyo wala na siyay salig sa mga taw. so mao na for him mas okay pa ang siya ang mo cheat nalang kaysa siya ang ma unhan and he has to go through all the pain again. Originally Posted by Blackjellybean27
yup, i know you're not encouraging cheating...
naa baya ko disclaimer sa post ko na don't judge people's opinion, so mao na i hope to get honest answers from people...
i read on that cheating thing as well, na main reason why a guy (who's got an "almost perfect" gf/wife) still cheats on her is because he needs to prove his masculinity or worth or self esteem... in other words, needs to have some kind of "reserve" just in case the girl bails out on him.. i don't blame naman the guy in that case, but then what good is a relationship if he doesn't trust her dba?
thanks for your opinion bro
naluoy lang ko sa mga people who get cheated on...
i've learned my lesson on cheating as well... will never do that ever again!
also, i know someone who got cheated on, but why does he choose to cheat on his gf gihapon? i mean dba, dapat na feel na unsay kasakit and all, why cheat on his gf? hahay, is that revenge? kaluoy pod sa gf nya oi..
depende lang pud ni sa taw nuon.
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