BROKEN HEARTED me. Need A little help here!

[kurdapia.nikki]

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Bitaw bitaw. Anhi pagawas imong hinanakit Brad. HAHAHA.

STRESSED ka?
Take a break. Eat LOTS of SWEETS!
Ice cream! Cake!
Cause when you spell stressed backwards, it spells DESSERTS!
YEAY!

[heisenberg69]

to TS Lex.....sa start ana jud na...sakit kaau na...sakit to the maximum level...sa akong nabantayan wala jud LDR (long distance relationship) na ni survive....i experienced the same thing sa imoha..but in different situation...cge e share nako akoa basin sad mo gaan imong feelings...

ill start...i am commited to a beautiful girl before...6years sad among relationship..lage kay ganahan nata mo settle down "married" so i decided to go abroad...i travel japan for five months then my boss moved me to Saudi kay need man kaau og field engineer didto...so before i transfer to saudi ni uli ko sa pilipinas kay para sad mananghid sa atong gihigugma sa kinabuhi...she told me na dapat ko mo larga kay nahan na siya na mag minyo mi..so i went saudi...larga ko didto last 2007...pareha sa imong gf lex cge kog tawag niya...EVERYDAY....so far so good ang situation sa paglabay sa 3omnths...then after that i realize na murag something wrong...SILENT...as in wala na xa ni contact..she dont even give me a goodnight txt nga piso raman unta ang txt...then one day...her cousin send me a message tru YM na hows my lovelife...then i replied with a big GOING STRONG...then her cousin told na its not..its FAILURE...then i was shocked...then her cousin told me everything..na late na kaau mo uli ang girl kay nakig date sa lain guy...they started dating xmas which is our anniversary...but besides sa tnan gipangsulti sa iyang cousin sa akoa...wala jud dayon ko ni tuo..i want proof..dili ko ganahan na mo react dayon...so mao to wala ko niya ma convince..then niabot ang sinulog...i called her then ni ask ko og unsa na amo situation....y man everytime manawag ko niya iya e tubag is katulgon na siya, kapoy siya sa work, need na xa og rest, sayo pa siya mo mata ugma...(daghan kaau alibies..)so nangutana ko og unsa pa among statuts.....the good thing is nitubag siya...dili na siya ganahan nako kay gikapoy na siya...exhausted na daw kaau siya....daghan kaau kog pangutana ato na time..."am i a bad boy?? do i deserve this?? naa koy sala na nabuhat para in-ani ang akong madawat??..i even wanted her to be surprised kay nipalit nako og engagement ring and wedding ring...pero nabali ang situation oi...ako man ang na surprise...surprise jud kaau ko...as in..super surprise...lolz...

you know how hard to handle that situation?? naa ka sa saudi tapos walay entertainment didto..walay beer para atleast lang makatulog kag sayo...wala as in wala..kulang nalang mag suicide ka...hehehhe... ang pinakasakit last tawag nako niya kay lage i thought na basin pwede ba.. last call nako is ang lalaki naman ang nitubag...a big OUCH...aw nitulo ra gud akong luha at that time...then didto na jud ko ni stop...i told to myself na im so stupid if ako pani ipadayon.....we can't changed wat we started but we can change the ending of it..

advice nako nimo lex..."dating is not a solution of a broken heart...the best thing you can do is PRAY" and practice the words "Forgive and forgive" para maka move on ka...don't beliv sa saying na "forgive and forget"...you cannot forget the things that happened in your life...so everytime you remember the bad things remember the word FORGIVE...and take note...it will take a year or more pra u can proudly say that you move on.....

[butong101]

@butong101: btaw bro, the other day nag chat mi sa YM while ga work sya, i told her na i will do everything, hatagan lang ko niya ug chance, pero u know what she told me? she told me na confused na daw sya ron, kapoy na daw sya..much better lang daw na bestfriends nalng daw mi ( she is also my bestfriend man)..nindot man amu foundation sa amo friendship gud..ingon sya na she understands how I feel..she told me that she'd be there gihapon as my bestfriend..but more dan bestfriend, dli na daw nya mahatag nko...saaaaaaaaddddddddddd...

All you wanted to hear is “cge mag balik ta”.. sakit ug kapoy kaayo paminawon nga ikaw emote kau sa imong hurt feelings unya ingnon raka kasabot ko nimo and promise I will always be there for you... waaaaaaaaa... na unsa.. uyab akong gusto di amiga.. heheh..ó

[tenzor73p]

to TS Lex.....sa start ana jud na...sakit kaau na...sakit to the maximum level...sa akong nabantayan wala jud LDR (long distance relationship) na ni survive....i experienced the same thing sa imoha..but in different situation...cge e share nako akoa basin sad mo gaan imong feelings...

ill start...i am commited to a beautiful girl before...6years sad among relationship..lage kay ganahan nata mo settle down "married" so i decided to go abroad...i travel japan for five months then my boss moved me to Saudi kay need man kaau og field engineer didto...so before i transfer to saudi ni uli ko sa pilipinas kay para sad mananghid sa atong gihigugma sa kinabuhi...she told me na dapat ko mo larga kay nahan na siya na mag minyo mi..so i went saudi...larga ko didto last 2007...pareha sa imong gf lex cge kog tawag niya...EVERYDAY....so far so good ang situation sa paglabay sa 3omnths...then after that i realize na murag something wrong...SILENT...as in wala na xa ni contact..she dont even give me a goodnight txt nga piso raman unta ang txt...then one day...her cousin send me a message tru YM na hows my lovelife...then i replied with a big GOING STRONG...then her cousin told na its not..its FAILURE...then i was shocked...then her cousin told me everything..na late na kaau mo uli ang girl kay nakig date sa lain guy...they started dating xmas which is our anniversary...but besides sa tnan gipangsulti sa iyang cousin sa akoa...wala jud dayon ko ni tuo..i want proof..dili ko ganahan na mo react dayon...so mao to wala ko niya ma convince..then niabot ang sinulog...i called her then ni ask ko og unsa na amo situation....y man everytime manawag ko niya iya e tubag is katulgon na siya, kapoy siya sa work, need na xa og rest, sayo pa siya mo mata ugma...(daghan kaau alibies..)so nangutana ko og unsa pa among statuts.....the good thing is nitubag siya...dili na siya ganahan nako kay gikapoy na siya...exhausted na daw kaau siya....daghan kaau kog pangutana ato na time..."am i a bad boy?? do i deserve this?? naa koy sala na nabuhat para in-ani ang akong madawat??..i even wanted her to be surprised kay nipalit nako og engagement ring and wedding ring...pero nabali ang situation oi...ako man ang na surprise...surprise jud kaau ko...as in..super surprise...lolz...

you know how hard to handle that situation?? naa ka sa saudi tapos walay entertainment didto..walay beer para atleast lang makatulog kag sayo...wala as in wala..kulang nalang mag suicide ka...hehehhe... ang pinakasakit last tawag nako niya kay lage i thought na basin pwede ba.. last call nako is ang lalaki naman ang nitubag...a big OUCH...aw nitulo ra gud akong luha at that time...then didto na jud ko ni stop...i told to myself na im so stupid if ako pani ipadayon.....we can't changed wat we started but we can change the ending of it..

advice nako nimo lex..."dating is not a solution of a broken heart...the best thing you can do is PRAY" and practice the words "Forgive and forgive" para maka move on ka...don't beliv sa saying na "forgive and forget"...you cannot forget the things that happened in your life...so everytime you remember the bad things remember the word FORGIVE...and take note...it will take a year or more pra u can proudly say that you move on.....

Kagrabe pd ana oi mas maayu pa diay mu larga sa gawas na walay uyab na ibilin kysa magbalik dre na guba heheh

[heisenberg69]

@tenzor....mao jud...mas ok pa larga ka abroad na single ka...para walay sakit sa dughan...hehehee...but dili tanan LDR in-ana ha..naay uban na going strong jud...

[tenzor73p]

mura man nag which is more important your heart or your wallet? hahhaha

[dindinisms]

lisud btaw na ang LDR. So far sa akng mga kaila wala jud naka survive.

[Lex]

btaw dli jud lalim especially na seryoso ko niya but cguro dri ra jud mi kutob...let's just hope for the best.

[butong101]

Lisod jd mao bitaw ako wa ko ni larga abroad cz naa ko uyab.. after 1 year ng buwag bitaw mi.. hahaiizzz... mapa ni larga.. daghan na unta kog warta rn.. bwahahahaha

[bhea]

cge lang youre in the process of healing