do you have a puter? laptop? winXP? so i can just give you the programmes needed for it and show you right away. by the way, can you check your frimware and post it? also your flex version and hardware. if you don't know how, turn off your phone and turn it back on whilke pressing "*" and "#" at the same time. that will give me an idea what you will need.
also have games. i have close to 50 in my puter and almost 30 inmy phone, also have close to 20 skins, and i have 4 firmwares. congrats on your phone! panindoton tana!