Is it ok to live away from husband and kids bec. of work?

[oninuxlinux]

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For me not because, i'm a guy, it's advantage. We're in the same situation before, I felt sometimes my wife looked at me in a negative way everytime I arrived at home. And I thought out that this could led us into misunderstanding later if we were always in this way, away from my family. And then later we decided to stay here in the city for the meantime, & later the later, we permanently moved here near in the city & we just bought one of the townhouses in DecaHomes in Canduman, Mandaue, just for us to fight the mis-work interpretation, missing the jacket of the kids hug & crowd, and the presence.

Now, what i'm trying to say is staying away from our family is freezing on each one's mind, each one needs the jacket & hugs of presence. Missing someone you loved is difficult especially when you have a lot of jobs to do, you can't think further, because, every line of sight is family, & especailly if you have toddler and/or below aging one. uhuhuh!!! 

For me, just talk with you husband. Either move your family near your workplace or move your workplace to your family, its either of the two you choose from is the best among your family & you. "Working close to your family is perfect."

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Hi all.... I would like to ask your opinions about this... is it alright to live away from yuor family bec of your work.... I am actually working here in the city and my family is in the province.... my kids are also going to skul there..... I would go home every weekend...

But sometimes, in the middle of the week, I would miss them terribly and would want to go home... though, I have all the advantages in living alone here in the city but I still could feel that our decision to live this way might be wrong.....

pls help.... need some of your insights....

[rey04]

in my observation daghan kaayong sala nga mahimo ug mahitabo if lagyo mo sa imo husband/wife. i've known so many couples who were into that.

[sheeshcute]

* I would prefer nga duol ko sa akong pamilya. Pero kung wa gyud koy makita nga duol then there's a better offer sa area nga layo sa ilaha, then mo sakripisyo na lang usa ko. Before doin that though ako sad gyud e consult akong partner and i will talk to the kids about it. E explain nako sa ila og tarong and situation and pasabton nako sila why i have to work nga layo sa ila.

[oninuxlinux]

yea, that should be done... you should near to your family...

[mhai...07]

based on my experience its not ideal jud...
naa mn jud tendency na matintal ka to leave ur family...
ur living alone bya..la kai worries about sa kids kai lau mn cla nmu..
mu.wori mn gani its about their safety lng..

[hyrei]

ok ra pero there are some circumstances jud when your away with your family... better have your work where your family are...

[Mannequin]

It's not good. But for a short period of time, okay ra. Ang lo-oy if gamay pa ang mga kids. Below highschool age kay lisud ang mama malayo.

[meeneemi]

ask yourself this: Why are you working? Most of us would say that we do so to provide for the family.

a lot of times, most of us rationalize our decisions by telling ourselves that we are 'sacrificing' for the good of all. But is is really good to leave your family behind?! I know some of us do not have the luxury of this decision but that is why you were given free will. The decision is always yours. Are you willing to give up a comfortable l;ife to be with your family in the provine? BAHALAG SAGING BASTA LOVING? or Are you willing to trust circumstance and chance to right things for your family while you are away so you could provide for them...

Well, if you are still young, you can always explore both ends of the spectrum... The most important thing is, YOU ARE HAPPY! :mrgreen:

[ms_chief85]

i dont want to live away from my family because of work but if i dont have another choice and it pays big amount of money i will sacrfice being alone coz i know it can help my family...

[majer]

for me NO coz family should live together bisan medyo lisod ang financial situation