l- HELP! I HAVE A PLAN BUT NO SUPPORT FROM FAMILY-l

[khen888]

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common sense and practical thinking helps....

[cebulifer]

I would assume that the property is owned by your parents. Sentimental na ni sila at their age. Lisod na i-convince to transfer to another residence. I mean, your parents have memorized your current residence already, that they can navigate the house in darkness.

I'm with the "let-your-vision/plan-go" group.

If the property is going commercial, eventually your parents will realize that. You just have to wait.

[dcabungcal]

Find a nice house that you think or you sure that your parents will love more than the current house, show it to them and make them feel good in that new place, then they will decide and will support your plans.

[jojo_mouth]

When my father died, and we had subdivided one oh his properties (nagbahin mi mga anak). Now the parcel was registered to my name, para nako sayang kaayo magdispose ug property, inhiritance ni sayangan ta,howmuch more kung hinaguan diba. Mao na sentimental kaayo ning mga tiguwang kung bahin sa yuta.


I think the best thing to do is let your parents understand that every property must earn para matawag ni ug "ASSET" (otherwise it is a liability). You or your parents may not be necessary to move out of it, but simply find ways to make it earn. Tukuran nimo ug tindahan/ comercial space sa atubangan para marentahan is an option. Or bording house sa likod will do.

You have mentioned that imong Tita ok magfinance sa imo proposed balhinan? If so, indeed it was a good idea to have your current place rent out and the proceeds to your tita. Just make sure everything is in writing para deli mo mawala sa passing hehe.. ang lisod ani basin mao ra ni awayan ninyo sa imong tita.

ey guyz gud day.
i have a problem here hope u can help me out and suggest me whats d best thing to do to materialyz
and realyz my plan. you see at present we are residing along the road in one of the progressive brgys.
here in our place. the place is getting more and more commercialized, the fact that its just along the
road. also, its gettng noiser w/c makes the place not conducive for residence anymore- i believe-. w/c
also contributed to my "disliking" of our place.
now i had a plan. -to transfer residence and place our recent residence property for lease-. i told my mom and dad bout this but theyre not bein cooperative and theyre not giving any support to my plan.
i told them we can tie-up w/ d ppl we know-like my tita abroad-to get financial assistance in building
a new house in our proposed new residence and the income of our "for lease property" will be given to
my tita for payment of debt.-talkng about strategy here.-
my mom is still not convinced about it and pays no mind on me.

my problem is, how can i convince my family to approve my plan.?
how can i materialize my plan and realize my vision?
what are better ways to get financial support?
pls help me out here guyz. need ur ideas and suggestions pls.
thanks in advance.

[medwarc]

bro, just consider also the feelings of your parents. lisud i let go bro ang butang nga gihaguan jud tawon nila ug maayo.basin gani wala pa ka matawo diha na sila gapuyo.
since commercialize na gamay inyo lugar pwede man ka mag tukod ug ginagmay nga business diha sa inyo balay.

[reine05ce]

bai...if dili ka ganahan sa environment sa gawas sa inyo balay,, i suggest na try to make the house' interior more comfy haron manindot siya kapuy-an. and financially wise, mas gamay kag gastoon sa pagrenovate sa inyo interior than to build a new house. regarding sa kasaba sa gawas, pwede ka mag use ug sound proof wall or low sound absorption wall...diba? mas ok and to think mu owe pa mo sa imo auntie and ma-under leasing pa inyo balay sa imo giplan..

and regarding sa side sa imo parents,,naa na sila sentimental values ana since mao na ila naipundar...maski gani sa amo kay mga butang nga guba lisod kaayo malabay kay musupak ako parents.