Blacksheep of the family

[gcvien]

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Help me... my younger sister ran away from home since last week.
we don't know where she went though she texted me that she's okey and she just needs time for herself to think. what i'm worrying about is that i didn't tell my parents who are in the province that she left. i callled my mother yesterday and i was about to tell her about our sister, but then my mom told me that she'll be here on sunday.. what should i do? do i have to wait for my mom to be here?
help me, im very confused....

[Gwynhuever]

^^ how about texting your sister nga inyo mama is arriving sa sunday...kon mana ba siya sa iyang "need to be by herself"....basin puede mo uli na siya aron dili na mag worry inyo parents? well mao ra jud na pinaka sayon...that is kon ma reach pa nimo siya...or mo tubag siya sa imo text...

if not then you will have to tell your mama...how old is your sis na ba? wala nag taban??

[gcvien]

she's already 26 years old. Old enough to make her own decisions... kaso lng, pirmi sayop, if ni advice ka nya, useless lng coz she won't listen as if she knows everything, she had work before and my elder sister was wondering how come pirmi cya off duty daw, so i called her office and was informed that nag AWOL na diay cya for 1 week. they kept on calling her through her cp or landline pero dli daw motubag.. hay, ambot kung unsa iya problem, everytime i asked her, ok ra daw cya, no problem daw, kaya ra.
i don't know if nagtaban ba cya or unsa, coz i also was informed by her officemate that there was a tsismis daw nga naa cya relationship with a guy nga married na. i was shocked then coz, ngano mopatol gd cya ato na guy.... so, i tried talking to her asking if tinuod ba to nga tsismis, tubag dayon cya y daw motuo ko sa tsismis, its not true daw.... i believed her then, pro there are still doubts on my head coz before man gd, pirmi na cya mag lie namo.. murag normal na lng nya ang maglie.

[gcvien]

at last nag reply ako sis, kaso lng s dli pa jd cya mo uli sa haus till she'll find a new job. maulaw daw cya. i tried to understand her but the problem s she wont tell us f wer cya stay ron.. ok ra man unta if she wants out basta we'll know f wer cya nag stay para at least dli mi maguol.
as of now, im thinking of telling my mom na lng kaysa mahibaw.an pa nya when she gets here.. basin ma blame pa mi ngano wala mi nag ingon nya. im scared lng f what will happen to her if ako cya ingnon.

[Gwynhuever]

^^ sige lang text niya...i think na alienate iya feeling....kay morag tinuod siguro ang tsismis about the married bf...kon ma feel man gud niya nga judgmental ka so of course mo deny siya...and the more she does this...the more siya ma close atong married guy kay wa na man siya lain kakampi....change tactic na lang ka...tell her how much you love her and that you will always be there for her no matter what...bisan tinuod pa ang tsismis....that will make her trust you and open up to you...kon mahitabo na gani nga mo angkon na siya then puede na ka mo anam2 ug tambag and help her get out of the mess she is in right now...karon man gud your hands are tied kay wala pa man siya ni ask help from you....bottomline is...win her back....good luck to you and i admire you for your concern sa imo sister....i hope it will be resolved....

[aceofspade]

give more love and attention.. they are just misunderstood..

[jofox]

pray for them

[kots_isko]

communicate and be more showy sa imong love sa iyaha...

the most important thing is that maski black sheep sila... they would still know and feel taht we love and respect them..... and they can turn to us kung naa silay problema.

[kris8jenn]

Actually, even if you show them that you love them, it has no effects on them (talking from experience). If you have the drive to tame a back sheep you need to have patience and perserverance to do that. Be firm in showing them what they are doing wrong and hoe many people they have hurt. DOn't shout at them, but show them.. then they will understand...

[cuttie_angel]

i am the blacksheep in the family or let say the "Prodigal Daughter"...maybe!!!