i have tried both parties but mas nasakitan ko sa situation na ako ang 3rd party...when at frst my bf cheated on me..the hurt was more because of insecurities having the thought of unsai kulang naku, maybe kita xa mas labaw, and its more on "self-pity"..but at the time i was the 3rd party mas sakit huna hunaon na nailad ko, though wa ko insecurity nafelt but the fact that he made me believe, he tricked me....it really sucks!...grrrr..i feel so dumb!...theres just a little bit of self-pity but it's more of hatred to myself for being such a folly....