i think your husband is emotionally immture. if he is mature enough, he should exactly know what things to avoid not to hurt your feelings. even after many times you had spoken with him and still wala lang gihapoy changes, then u should think then, importante ba gyud kaha ko sa akong bana? because if u r, then he should be scared to hurt you and lose you. ang mga lalaki ingon ana, kung super nato sila kamahal maski gapakatanga nata, it will not help, it will only get worst sometimes. sometimes you will have to show a person that you are not easy so they give more value to you
ingna lang gud: "kung ako kaha txtan pirmi akong ex, what would you feel?"
ayaw lang pod og react kaayo sis. in the name of law di raba gyud allowd ang mangukay
og cellphone sa imo partner kay puede raba ka makiha..maguba hinoun inyo kaminyoun.
mailhan rah bitaw nah nimo sa kadugayan..kay ang tinuod nga guma di gyud nah molubad.
ipakita lang sa imo partner nah responsible ka nga nga pagka partner..naa bitaw tay gitawag og
gaba, mobalik rana nia if mao nah iyang binuhatan..
@jayem...
i feel sad about you...i dont want that to happen to me
anyway, if i were you .. confront your husband and give him a lesson. tell him na magbuwag jud mo if magpadayon sya sa iyang kabuang...and if still he'll do it again, leave him na jud.
ask sya unsa iyang gusto sa iyang kinabuhi,,,ug gusto pa sya magkia-kiat, give him the freedom and let go.
there's no use of being with sum1 nga dili na nmu masaligan ug cge lang ka pasakitan...you will continue to feel paranoid ug ikaw ang alkanse ana...if he truly loves you, one mistake is enuf na woi..ug kadaghan nasad, sobra nasd na nga sacrifice sa imo part nga mopasaylo niya...
i just hope dili lang pud ko ma ing-ana preha nmu kay luoy ako bb![]()
Last edited by crush_23; 10-14-2009 at 03:23 PM.
suwayi ug buwag, ok ra gani sa imo huby na mgbuwag mo, ingna lng pd, joke3x lng.
i am just wondering, how long have u two been married...my husband used to be with so many girlfriends other than me b4 we're married, found that out thru his messages too, even in our early married life, he had a lot of txt mates and he sends them sweet messages until years have passed and i continually checked on his cp of course he doesn't know that...i no longer find any messages from flings..hes inbox and sent messages now only contains work related and friends messages..so i figured he's finally reached his stage of maturity where in he already realized his responsibilities n priorities and those other women no longer entices him...we've been married for three yrs now and i can deeply feel his love for me and our kid...my point is, probably your husband hasn't realized his responsibilities yet or maybe he doesn't have some other things for him to enjoy like sports..that's why he turns to where he can feed his ego. it maybe that it boost his ego knowing that his x is still into him...continue to be a responsible wife and mother 2 ur kids and most of all surrender to GOD all your worries and burdens, w/ him nothing is impossible...
way au jud na mga text2x... it'll start out as text2x, pretty soon something's gonna happen na jud. if not, something is happening na... i had that experience before with my ex-hubby (yup gi buwagan jud naku), simple texts that lead into something else. the thing is, cge sorry2x up to the point na he didnt say sorry anymore coz something happened na. nasakpan pa jud nako sa palm niya na may picture ng girl with the caption my baby.. imagine how painful that is.. and yes i tried to work it out with him for 3 years.. unfortunately, it came to a point that i've had enough and decided to break off with him. i know the usual advice would be think of the kids, or something like that. pero you know what, if your kids see their mommy miserable ALL the time, that wouldn't be too helpful either.. anyway i'm not saying that you break off with your hubby.. i'm just relating an experience and also saying that we should know when enough should be enough.. work it out, have counselling and all... if cge pa padayon, then you know what to do...
sakto jud mo sa inyong mga advice..i thnik i should convince him to go through marriage counceling,,naa mo nahibaw-an asa?kapoy kaau kay everytime wala sya like ad2 sya sa work mag lain na daun akong utok. ang girl ako na gi texan nga d na motxt fon sa akng hubby akong gi use,so that she wil think nga d na nterested akong hubby nya.nka feel ko nga d na to sya motxt,but sa akng hubby,im not sure f d na ba jud sya mo usab..as in wa na jud ko trust nya..wa ko na convince sa iyang mga reasons nko..ako sya gi ask f motxt usab ang girl nya mo reply pa ba sya,ingon sya,depende daw sa unsay gi txt..so meaning to say mo reply jud diay ghapon cya..dli man na mao akong gusto madungog gkan niya..a simple "no" lang unta.
pray for luck coz you've been very unlucky tsk tsk
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