Would you leave someone if there's no more "spark"?

[AntitaniC]

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well... falling in love is easy......


Staying in love is THE MAGIC........... something special....

[emjee17]

Hahahaha..Dili ko magsaba pero naka post man diri sa forum ,so , mahibaw-an dayon sa public..hehe
Haven't been in this situation yet, I bet , it's so painful...

aehehe..okay ra sis oie.. ^^

Painful? hmmm.. yes it is.. pero if you want to work it out.. pain doesn't matter most especially if you really love the person.. murag mu second demotion nalang na si PAIN.. labi nag ma buhi balik ang inyong spark all because of your efforts.. makaingon jud kag : "it was all worth it.."
not only can it boost your self-esteem, it can make you feel a sense of accomplishment.. ^^


siguro the some of the causes of the "loss of spark" in a relationship kay:
*less communication
*no communication at all.. kanang may lang sa sugod bah..
*too much DON'Ts in a relationship (which is really unhealthy!!)
*less/no trust
*less/no effort in working the relationship
*when the other party is no longer interested

..add some more.. hehehe..

[dimplesheaven]

that spark is only good enough during the early stages of the relationship or for those relationships that are not deep enough. love is a choice, it is a decision and whether there's a spark or not, a relationship can still go one once two people put their minds and hearts into it. such spark is often misinterpreted as love, trust, and other feelings associated in getting into a serious relationship.

This is so true...I think love is a choice jud... Dapat committed mo to work out the relationship no matter how hard, not just give up too easily.. Ironically, only martyrs are capable of unconditional love...

[dimplesheaven]

It's just so amazing that guys have a different view when it comes to love as opposed to women...Generally speaking, girls like fairytales and romantic endings..Sala jud diay ni sa mga romance novels...haha

[vahnhelsing]

weeee.... in love there are times when you couldnt feel the thrill or the spark as they say...
but is it that easy to let go of your partner... give time, it might just because your not focused on him/her.... it could be just one of those storms... think before letting go...
there could be still reasons to stay when you try to find one...

[donyakai]

I so agree with you....
bahh... spark....! .... love is different from spark.. but even love fades.. spark na ba kaha.. relationships need hard work.. not spark... and if there's no more spark.. that's where some hard work would come in... so you can brink back the spark... *.....

spark**********spark.....

i agree.. love doesnt live w/ the spark..

[jimmy128]

mga transformers ra mka live with the spark (all spark :P sa mka relate lang)

[BabyKai]

well... falling in love is easy......


Staying in love is THE MAGIC........... something special....

it's not magic.. it's just commitment and hard work

[jimmy128]

it's not magic.. it's just commitment and hard work

Amen i say to you

[xinevirtucio]

if u are too attached with that "spark" and is fond of reading romance novels...i suggest you stop reading...

why?you are confusing reality with fiction....

point in case...sa romance novels ang male bida...murag perfect au...in reality...lisod na cla pangitaon....

if you base your standards on that....murag...lisod jd mgdugay ang relasyon...

ending...muana daun...wala na spark....

ikaduha....too good to be true ra kaayo ang ilang mga situations...naa jd ng knight in shining armor...

naa man sd knight in shining armor sa reality...pero they come in different packages...

ikaduha...the spark or fire dies down...if you let it....

if you are merely depending on the "spark" then it is probably not yet love...

point is mura maboring mgkadugay kai murag ma predict na nimo ang imo partner diba...

so makaingon nga wala na spark....hehehe....kung mao na ang blema...re-invent yourself...once in a while

surprise2x sad ba....date2x usahay....ana ba...

leaving someone because there is no more spark is a poor excuse...for you to find someone else...seriously...

kanang spark spark...tuo ko ana sauna..mao guro...niabot ug pila ka laki akoa uyab sauna...

pero karon di na na uso....in a relationship...its either you let it rot...or you work hard with your partner to keep it alive....

the spark is a mere symbolism....it shouldn't be the basis.