Help! House-husband

[bbnescia]

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kung gusto jd na mo work imong migo ba, mas maayo ipabantay nag yaya kanang silingan lang nila nya kada adlaw 50 hatag nila or kada sweldo hatag pud sila.nya papaulion lang kung maabot na sila,kay para d na mag self pity imong migo.nahan man jd kaha sya mo work?aw agwantahon nalang niya nga ipabantay ilang anak sa lain taw para mo excel na iyang talent diha.or adto ba sila puyo sa ilang in-laws nya ipabantay ilang anak at least makabantay pud ug apil ilang in-laws. para silang duha ang mo work, kaya naman na nila bayran ang yaya kay sila na duha work.mao pud ni akong gisuwayan sauna kato mga 1year pa kapin among baby,since nagpuyo mi sa among in-laws nagpabantay mig lain taw pero makakita pud among in laws knsa bantay,nya work akong bana nya negosyo kog ako pud.pero d lang madala nako kay akong baby dri man jd nako moduol, mao ng wa nalang ko anang negosyo akong bana kakita mn pud ug trabaho nga dako dako sweldo.

[ranmauelle]

i agree, lisod kaau ang ingon ana na situation pero depende jud na sa sabot ninyong duha sa imo misis.
Best thing jud is to enjoy what you're doing. Think that you're doing it for your family. Ang bana, he should enjoy being with his baby kay dili ra ba permi baby ang iya baby hehehe. Sa karon, make the most of his days/self together with his baby and wife. It's nice and feels good to take care of his wife din by doing the household, cooking for his wife etc. Just think how much you love your wife and baby, and you'll feel great doing all the things that you need to do maski naa ra sya sa balay. Hoping the wife will appreciate everything he does.

[jblim1980]

sabot2 rajud n cla duha aron magkasinabtanay...

[Beth-MAVPS]

ok ra man cguro na kay ako sis same situation sa imo migo...ako sis mas dako sweldo kaysa iya hubby mao ang miundang ug work ang husband kay miunay ug bantay sa bata kay hadlok man cla lain tawo mobantay...but very responsible man hubby ako sis mao ok ra jod cguro na bro...ayaw lng god cya paundanga ug papangitag work basin maswertihan diay...naa dghan local job fairs this month sa CICC ipatry daw cya heheheeh....

[emnace09]

mgbuhat nlng xa ug tndahan sa ilaha.. siyaro mbyaan p ba ang bata ana

[yvonne6]

i dont believe nga bec he has stayed in the house and watched the baby instead of his wife is the cause why he hasnt been lucky with his job hunting. kung talented gyud ka ug qualified, there is no reason for companies to decline you. also, ang intellegence dili na mawala bec u didnt work for a while. just dont give up, the right job will come to you. just know which is the right job for u. lain man sad kaau mangapply ka for manager and u have no background or experience

[vikkz]

Dapat di siya mauwaw ana nga situation. Agreement naman sad na nila. Daghan man nga pamilya gani nga ang babae ang breadwinner ug tigtrabaho. Nothing to be ashamed of gyud.

[charot!]

i dont believe nga bec he has stayed in the house and watched the baby instead of his wife is the cause why he hasnt been lucky with his job hunting. kung talented gyud ka ug qualified, there is no reason for companies to decline you. also, ang intellegence dili na mawala bec u didnt work for a while. just dont give up, the right job will come to you. just know which is the right job for u. lain man sad kaau mangapply ka for manager and u have no background or experience

being a house husband is not the reason nganong dili sya lucky sa job hunting, but it's one of the reason or resulta nga mawala ang CONFIDENCE sa usa ka tao. It really depends on the person no pero mostly, if naa jud ka sa balay, murag mawala imo confidence sa imo self. i have tried it before man gud. I had no job for almost a year and tambay ko sa balay. that's why maka-relate jud ko sa ako migo though lahi lng mi ato na situation, i was single that time and he is married karon with baby pa.

in my own opinion pud is ang intelligence dili man mawala pero ang imo nakat-onan possible nga makalimot ka esp if dili nimo sya permi gamiton. tay-an ka ba. But you can refresh it still.
And unsaon man sab nimo if bright ka pero ur not confident enough to answer all the questions during interview. Maski suma cumlaude cguro ka if you're not confident, murag di ganahan dawaton ka sa company, diba?

[charot!]

Dapat di siya mauwaw ana nga situation. Agreement naman sad na nila. Daghan man nga pamilya gani nga ang babae ang breadwinner ug tigtrabaho. Nothing to be ashamed of gyud.

yup i agree with you mao jud na ang dapat pero sometimes man gud, it's easy for girls to say na ayaw kaulaw or di dapat maulaw pero sa side sa lalaki ay it's very hard. Di nimo na mawala jud nga maulaw ang lalaki if babae ang mosupport niya. Murag ang feeling sa lalaki ana is inutil kaau sya.
i wish my friend is here aron ma-release niya iya gibati karon ug makabasa pud sa mga tambag ninyo.
ala man sila internet sa balay gud.

[charot!]

mgbuhat nlng xa ug tndahan sa ilaha.. siyaro mbyaan p ba ang bata ana

mao na ila plano bro, and cge sila huna2x unsaon kay nag-abang lng man sila and then sudlon pa jud gamay ang location.