My boyfriend and her X are close... should i get jealous?

[forum_angel]

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it's normal to get jealous...when you'e in this kind of situation....jut don't let that jealouy get in the way of your relationship..

[rhadamantus]

yeah you should..

men are polygamous in nature

aye, ayt! men are polygamous by nature. lol.

btaw, ur jealousy might even be the triggering factor that will lead to that scenario you feared.

[bonniebonny]

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you feel jealous.

that's natural.

ok ra na.

but when the X starts acting like she owns ur bf,

then that's where you have a real issue there.

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[Almidala]

di na na pwede ang inana oi. naa gud cla past.. how sure are u na wa na cla ngkiss2 dinha?
u say na gipili ka over her, so meaning ganahan pa na ang girl sa iya? wat if she loves him enuf to swallow her pride and play third party behind ur back...

m still frends with my xbfs, we hang-out ghapon. but if naa nko uyab, wa na oi. di na na pwede...

okay ra frends cla, clasmates cla but ur bf gota put a gap between them....

[n0stALg|a]

it's normal for ppl to get jealous at times... pero dapat naa sa saktong lugar... sa saktong sitwasyon... u need to make sure first, if ur bf and his ex are also doin "things" together outside school or besides school activities.. coz if they're not, then obviously theres no need for u to get jealous, ryt?!?!

pero best thing to do is to talk to ur man about it.. he needs to knoe coz he's the one concerned.. if he cant give u a good explanation and if things dont change after u talk to him, then i guess that would be the best time for u to be packin ur things...

[bonniebonny]

No, dear!
I was very close with my ex when I had another bf and I can tell you from the heart that my bf had nothing to worry about.
Nevertheless, if it's causing an issue between both of you, you need to honestly tell your bf what you feel. If he loves you, he will minimize his dealings with his ex.
They shared a past and will always feel close to each, you have to understand that. But, he also needs to see, that because he is now in relationship with you and not with her, your feelings come first.
Still, don't choke him with your jealousy. It will only succeed in driving him away.

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correccttt..

that's exactly what my bf did when i told him na di ko ganahan nga

magsige ug txt iya ex kung asa sya, nga magkita sila. weeh..

kalain ana. so he deleted her number jud.

dah, dah, dah! hehehe

pero yaw ka insecure dani kay i bet he loves you more than his ex..


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[neishan731]

no you shouldn't get jealous. but who am i to say? i'm not in your shoes. pero unsa man dy na iya ex-gf? aside from them being classmates and study buddies or whatever, do they still hang out outside of school? have you ever caught them talking on the phone, talking about other "stuff"?

nope..they dont hang out outside school... we are together every after class.. i caught them talking only when her X saw us at the mall... that was with me though...

[botyok]

my boyfriend and her X are classmates in most of their subjects... sometimes her X woul even ask help for her projects from him.. it makes me jealous at times... although her X knew about me already...i cant help my self get so paranoid at my school thinking wat deyr doing at their school too... and i hate it.. should i get jealous?

u dont hav to get jealous kay naa man gud uban nga manag X nga close gihapon..i mean remain friends gihapon bah....

[neishan731]

honey, its all in the mind. a relationship not built on trust is deem to fail. u are supposed to talk this over with him.. i think he has the right to know how ure feeling. after all, u guys are supposed to be honest with each other, dba?

yah we've already talk about it.. and he told me that i shudnt get jealous because its all pure friendship that he's giving her...nothing more nothing less..and i shud trust him now... but sumtyms i just cant help myself think they myt get back together agen... and that i dnt wana tell him.. i dnt want him to think im paranoid...

[neishan731]

thank you all guys for your advices and comments... keep it comming.. it makes me feel better somehow... both the negatives and the positve coments givs me a larger point of views about what decision to make..

Well, here it is....

like when the time my boyfriend chose me over this gurl... the gurl was like so mad at me... and i already told her i got nothing to do with that.. i never brain washed my boyfrend at that time... me too was hurting at that moment waiting for the decision he was going to make at that time..because i've already fel inlove with him at that time...

now, wen my boyfriend chose me... i told him to make friends with her so that he could somehow ease the gurl's pain...(but i was like thinking twice of saying that..im realy a jealos typ)...

and i hate the gurl kay ni gara na siya! she's like teasing me now... one tym nagkuyog mi ako bf sa mall... and she knows man wer we hang out most of the tym at the mall.. like she went there with her frend and sit right beside my boyfrend and talk to him real close...and even take pictures.. mo hangyo pa jud na agbayan cya ako bf... and like d na gud ka tingog akong bf kay pasingit na kaayo siya... d sad ko gnh ug gubot mao d ra ko motingog... d sad ko gnhn ma ingnn ko sa akong uyab nga scandalosa kung awayon to nako ang gurl... she was realy so despret at that tym na mapalagot ko niya... pero ni smile nalang ko..

i only talkd to my bf after she walk away... and my boyfrend said sorry for wat she did..and promised to me that would nvr hapen agen...

so far wala pa nahapen ug usab..kai if ma usban pah... wa nako kabaw sa akong buhaton.... d ko kabaw mangaway basta about love ang issue....