White lies: are these ever ok in a relationship?

[captstar]

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unsa'y giingon sa ten commandments? THOU SHALT NOT LIE.....whatever lie it is, mapa.white lie, red lie, green lie, yellow lie or unsa pa nang color dha na isumpay nmo sa lie, lie ghapon na...

[lecreigh]

ok lng. as long as ur significant other wont find out... :P

[eilrach]

it is true that a lie is a lie... i agree
a white lie is still a lie... i still .... agree

but... there is a difference between a lie... and a white lie...
(in the first place... it wouldnt be called as such... if its the same)

IMHO... there are times or situations that lying is valuable... or let say it is necessary in order to save ones life... or someone elses life...


@white lies.. is it ever ok in a relationship?
still id say .... it depends

my POV

sakto ka bai (two thumbs up)... i would say that lying is not good. but, dili man jud na kalikayan, depende jud na sa situation.. ^_^

[pablingz]

i think depende lang jud ni sa situation... naay uban nakinahanglan jud ka mogamit ug "white lie", example kay kung imu siya i-suprise, bati man sad kaau if ma spoil ang element of surprise kung dili ka "mamakak" BUT if kanang mga butang na sa tan-aw nto maka affect jud sa relationship dapat jud nato isulti ang tinuod bsan if kbaw ta na mkapasakit sa to partner... its a matter of trust, kung naa moy salig sa usag-usa walay butang na makapaguba sa inyu relasyon... Honesty , Trust and Loyalty are very important in a relationship.

[brucej2sdk]

Even if it could hurt someone you should tell the truth.
Nobody will be pleased by lies.

[kc_marshan]

there's no such thing as a white lie...
white lie as you call it, is still a lie...

mas nindut jud if mg tell na lang sa truth..@least whatever it maybe u'll get to talk about it instead of creating a web of lie nga pwede makadestroy ug something nice..

[ieskna]

there's no such thing as a white lie...
white lie as you call it, is still a lie...

mas nindut jud if mg tell na lang sa truth..@least whatever it maybe u'll get to talk about it instead of creating a web of lie nga pwede makadestroy ug something nice..

i agree on this..LIE is A LIE...
goes down to same definition....
rather tell the truth kay lesser ang pain and of cors lying is so destructive
to watever you have worked out for

[joan_of_arc324]

tell d truth nlng, kay no matter what, mugawas jud ang truth...maybe, d ka masakpan dayon, but sooner, masakpan ra jud ka!

[imURangeL...]

for me it's better to tell the truth even if it hurts.. kay alay mas sakit kung mahibaw an nimo later part na kung unsa jud ang tinuod... and besides NOBODY here likes to be lied... for me i just cant stand lying... and besides kapoy sad cguro memorize sa imung gpangsulti.. but sad to say naa jud pipol na gpanganak na LIER... and unfortunately im one of the victims...


grrrrrrrr.... hate it!... but im not bitter here... im just explaining... hehehe...

[estoyra]

truth hurts ika nga... so hala na sakit bsta kabalo lng jd ko tnan...