HELP My BF is behaving oddly! Playing around or am I Paranoid?

[jdimpas]

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nagsugod na d'ay ug klasi last wednesday? unsa man ni nga skul?

basin summer class bai.. hehe

[jdimpas]

sis... i'll relate your situation with this phrase: "daghan rason ihatag ang taw basta di ganahan, the more pa kaha kung ganahan".

i think what I am trying to say is that if ganahan sya nga ma-value ka, mangta ug mangita dyud dpat sya ug way... he would have had talked to you personally instead of doing it through SMS, and by that, I think makahibaw kag tinuod ba dyud to tanan or was he just making up stories to cover up something.

i've gone through the same thing. and ang rason: kapoy lng sya, di sa sya ganahan makigkita. period. well, i hope it won't be the case for you...

this is true! basin gikapoy lang sa date... ay isti sa skol.. mao ng diritso nalang siya ug tulog den wala ka inform nimo.. my only advice to you is talk to him, to clear things up!.. ayaw sa pag negative.. para matured ug datin bah.

[PGM_301]

hey,settle down...you know whats really goona help you?....you guys should talk it over...let him know every single one of your concerns,..ask him how on earth does he come up with all the reasons if magkita na mu...just straighten things out,..whatever the outcome is,at least you did your part....if he ain't worth it,then leave the guy...i know its easier said than done, but you always have a choice....a relationship full of doubts would just stress you out....belive me,...

[jdimpas]

hey,settle down...you know whats really goona help you?....you guys should talk it over...let him know every single one of your concerns,..ask him how on earth does he come up with all the reasons if magkita na mu...just straighten things out,..whatever the outcome is,at least you did your part....if he ain't worth it,then leave the guy...i know its easier said than done, but you always have a choice....a relationship full of doubts would just stress you out....belive me,...

100% Correct... you need to talk to him.. and tell him everything!

[rennyvonne]

im only 17 but this one thing i believe. intuition. i've heard from a lot of people and proven pa jud nga if unsay una nga imo na feel bwt sa imo BF regarding sa situation is true. 4 example if you felt like he was cheating on you... then.. tinuod d.i to.

women have special senses kc.

based sa imo gishare, fishy na au imo bf. let him do his thing and do what is right. if you feel like it's time to let go, then let go.

wla may mawala nimo bah. you can still keep your dignity intact kysa mgpabuta ug mgpkamartyr ka ky bsig sayup d.i imo gi think bwt sa imo bf.

bsag msayup ka, you played safe. it's one of the cases where you have to think about yourself than the other significant person. mura ganig "may pag siya msakitan kysa ako"...

hee.. enjoy life...

[shaxyra]

karon rako kabantay ani kv.. nya sa naman ni?

[mastersun23]

If he's been doing it for quite a long time, then it could be possible something's fishy. Observe langsa.
Give him the benefit of the doubt.

interesting how this story will unfold... Mag cge ko check up ani. muag telenovela.

[PGM_301]

^^lagi,ako kay bag.o pa ko ani nga section sa istorya,mao dayun ako naabtan..hehe i'll keep myself posted...but i really hope you'll be able to handle this well sis...

[dwardwarbinx]

pangutan-a sya straight on..

pero feel nako ha, fishy jd sya. most of the time, accurate bya jd nang girl's instinct chuvaness. hahay. okay ra na... it'll pass.

good luck!

[kharan]

For me sis, you need to observe him, his actions etc.

And then if ni grabe na iyang mga actions, then iask cya why ing ana na mga things na happen between ninyo. So you guys can re-evaluate your relationship pud because maybe lapses rana karon. Basin na bored lang sya or something. Or na super used to naka nga ing ana (gf bf routines ninyo) mao if naa change gamay sa mga routines ma paranoid dayon ka.