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@ TS: bai, hard to say imoha ang bata & not good to judge your GF since we don't know her pesonally. but since nagka-uyab man mo then i suggest panagutan nimo. Marrying her is like suicide as of the moment,you don't have to marry the girl just because na buntis sya.
If we follow logic bai: you can't say imo ang bata because of your GF's former work (did you mention how long she worked there & how long she has left the job). A girl on that industry (although harsh, but just a reality) is likely to have more experience over you & they can easily trick you for stability's sake.
if you follow your heart: you should provide for her since it is possible nga imo jud nang anak. again, you don't have to marry her just because you got her pregnant (at early 20s, bata pa kaayo mo bai). For sure partly lust na ang reason why you got into relationship with her anyway. ang problema is if one day you realized that it is just physical attraction & pride (prince charming effect, we "guys" sometimes has that illusion). once you get married bai, & basing from your situation di mo makaafford og annulment (sad to say). so do the matured way here, don't rush into things. for us Pinoys marraige should only be for matured people kay daghan na kaayo nagbasol nga nisulod ani..wehehe
SO for me bai you only need to give her the support she needs (labi na ang financial). carrying your kid is not easy bai, & you should be greatful for that gift. your family will understand someday. Good luck!
thanks sa imu advice bai.
i don't have any doubts kon ako ang bata, cuz im sure my gf is not playing around. i know she couldn't and wouldn't betray me. she worked in the club for 4 months, that was 2 years ago. despite her past na nagwork cya as gr*, shes not the type that would trick someone just to get money. she was very honest and polite when i met her at the club which is also why nainteresado ko nya.
we never had trust issues. for two years never jd nahitabo na naay 3rd party or watever you call it. amu ra jd permi awayan kay maldito ko nya maldita cya. dali rasd mi sapoton kaming duha. mao permi mi magaway. never jd mi nagaway because of selos or any pertaining to infidelity.