Thanks JosephDc.
Josephdc is right about being an effective person.
It is important to set goals and follow through on that goals.
Then assess your goal on how far have you accomplished these goals.
Although it is not as simple as that all the time.
Sometimes it is because of our childhood experiences.
Sometimes it is because of our birth year.
Sometimes it is because of our vices and other things.
Sometimes it is because of lack of self discipline.
Sometimes it is because you wanted to do so many things
that you lose the energy to finish what you started.
The key is focus.
Focus on the priority goals.
Try to prioritize which goal is more important to you.
Check if these goals are realistic enough to accomplish.
Start with the smaller goals and work your way to the bigger goals.
Have the self-discipline to finish what you started.
I could explain further if you answer these things.
1.Did you grow up without a father?
2.Are you and only child?
3.How old are you?
4.Are you rich?
ako sad soul doctor!
1. i'm scared of failing
2. malas kog lovelife...
ngano man na?
Part of being human is to be wrong.
I can be wrong. I admit to that.
What we may considered "right" at one time (and one place),
could be wrong in another time (and another place).
You are speaking though of people with higher soul level.
When your soul level elevates to a higher level you can do more things with your life.
You accumulate talents more than other people.
You can do extraordinary things.
One sure indicator to see if you already are in the higher level of souls:
your name will be remembered in history for doing something extra-ordinarily good.
It is normal to be scared of failure.
You may be afraid of rejection.
You feel people will not accept you if you fail.
You probably grew up in a competitive family condition.
Usually in big families. Where parents are so demanding.
And they want you to succeed all the time.
All you must do is consider failure as a prerequisite of success.
Everybody has to fail before we succeed.
As a child, we did not walk straight right away.
We stumbled a lot times before we could really walk straight.
Just be confident on your abilities.
Don't listen to people who says that you can not do this and you can not do that.
Listen to people who tells you of the things you can do.
What we consider "malas" could be a good thing.
Sometimes we forget that when it comes to love,
there is someone (or more than one) designed to be our lover or partner.
These loves and lovers have lessons to teach us.
We learn a lot from failed relationships.
When you keep on failing on your relationships,
it means that you have not learned those lessons yet.
Analyze the failed relationships.
Talk with friends on their views about your relationship.
Ask yourself why and be open to all possible answers.
You will realize that you may have some shortcomings you were not aware of.
They call it your blindspots.
I recommend that:
Have smart friends around.
Keep an honest friend/s.
Ask for advice and Listen to their advice.
Do your really believe in the Creation of Man? or do you believe the Scientific way(bigbang theory etc.)?
I don't subscribe to both theory or any other older theories.
These theories were old.
I have theories of my own too.
But they are just my theories.
I just don't want to expose myself to criticism and misjudgements
and be vulnerable of personal attacks because of my new theories.
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