Why Do We Hurt The Ones We Love?

[psyche_08]

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Why do we ALWAYS hurt the ones we love?

I don't think this is the general case.

I think it only applies in the rare situation where as the couple, there is one who is a masochist(one who takes pleasure from pain) while the other is a sadist(one who takes pleasure from giving pain).

i am a masochist, dang! although i do not take pleasure in emotional distress, i'd rather have it physical.

anyway, Why Do We Hurt The Ones We Love? it's not like its intentional. when we love the person, there are times the we do crazy things that may result to hurting them, although not intentionally. most of the time, we need proof. for example, making somebody feel jealous just so the other can prove that he/she loves you, well this is what most of the women do, missing the fact that we are already hurting the person. tsk tsk tsk... a sad thing, isn't it? but true.

one more thing, when you experience the feeling called "love", getting "hurt" comes with the package. put in mind that you got hurt because you loved.

[s_an_e]

kay kahibaw man ta nga willing cla mo forgive maski unsa pa ka dako ato sala.. coz they love us also..

[Hot Ice]

Mao siguro ang uso mao na..

[digitalsuperman]

i don't think I intentionally hurt the one's I love.

its just that some of the worst things that could happen came up with the best intentions..

sometimes I think that what I will do will be good for the relationship but it turned out in the opposite way.

[fha]

i don't think I intentionally hurt the one's I love.

its just that some of the worst things that could happen came up with the best intentions..

sometimes I think that what I will do will be good for the relationship but it turned out in the opposite way.

you're right...that's how cruel life is...

[burn_my_eyes]

Re: Why Do We Hurt The Ones We Love?

sh!t happens, thats why.

[miss tapya]

sometimes i wonder too....

On my part, Saon MALDITA man gud ko.. mao ng ang mabuthan perme ..ang taong gamahal..

[fha]

it's a learning process that's why hurt/s come our way.....8s not that we intentionally hurt the ones we love, sometimes we hurt them because of the truth...most of us cant handle the truth...the truth is that we have done something that's why we are being reprimanded and what's more hurting is the fact that our EGO cant handle it...our pride that is... :mrgreen:

[inks]

You hurt them kay you know miski na hurt nimo sila, naa man gihapon sila dinha.. depende giunsa nimo pag hurt..

[black_vixen]

mmm.....dli lang guro ta aware nga npasakitan cla...pero naa juy uban nga toyu-un jed..tsk tsk tsk