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[Soul Doctor]

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Join a toastmasters club!

Excellent suggestion.
I too wanted to join a toastmasters club.
But I never gathered the confidence to do so.

[Soul Doctor]

@Soul Doctor - Why you feel love? What is the cause of love? Where does love come from? will most of the answer comes from the heart but any further explanation to that?

One question at a time lang please.
Mahina ang kalaban.
Really, it is hard to answer multiple questions.

[Soul Doctor]

@Soul Doctor - Why you feel love?

It is one of our social needs, to love and to be loved.
We feel love towards persons that we find attractive and appropriate for us.
We feel love especially when someone shows his or her love towards us.
It then present itself as an opportunity for self expansion.
When we perceive this-
- we feel a surge of exhilaration.
And we think we are in love.

[Soul Doctor]

@Soul Doctor - What is the cause of love?

As to the cause of love, it differs from person to person.
It is usually a reaction towards a certain stimulant.
Many things were associated with love.
Others say its the full moon.
Others say it is the wine.
Others think its the beauty.
Others say its the flowers.
Other say it the perfume shes wearing.
Others meet a person under conditions that are highly arousing-
example a concert performance (this is how famous people get their fans), political demonstration, turbulence on a plane, traveling on a boat or train.
our body is stirred up and excited
and we tend to experience attraction at a heightened level.

[Soul Doctor]

@Soul Doctor - Where does love come from? will most of the answer comes from the heart but any further explanation to that?

Love comes from our reaction to a stimulant.
We love this food because its smell is appetizing.
WE love chocolate because of the high it gives us.

For me love is a chemical addiction between two people.
One person can stimulate another with the chemicals they are emitting.
Vasopressin and oxytocin could stimulate production of reward chemicals on the brain that in effect gives us a "high" or makes us feel "good".

[harris]

Vasopressin and oxytocin are hormones produces by brain..so is it "I love you with all of my brain" or "I love you with all of my heart"?

[am_believer24]

I think something happened when you were young.
You may have experienced it in school or at home.
Please try to remember anything traumatic events or experiences.
It could be a product of any form of maltreatment.

I too, has low self confidence when I was young.

My father left us when I was 4.
My mother was unintentionally exposing us to bad programming.
Somehow she lashes out on me, because I was my dad's favorite child.
She programmed my mind thinking that our father is a bad person (because he left us).

This programming has negative impact on our emotional development.
Inside our childhood mind it suggests that our father is not a good person,
therefore we are not a good person too.

Its effect were more visible on my younger siblings.
I , as the favorite child,
manage to resist her programming
by thinking of the things my dad did for me.
I think of ice cream and different toys
that my father brought home for me every time gets home.

i used to join a lot contests before, i was never maltreated, no traumatic experiences.
cge lang jud mi transfer ug lugar, balhin-balhin..

so possible ba nga mao na ang reason?!

[Soul Doctor]

i used to join a lot contests before, i was never maltreated, no traumatic experiences.
cge lang jud mi transfer ug lugar, balhin-balhin..

so possible ba nga mao na ang reason?!

Maybe, kay kami sige man sad mig balhin balhin.
Wala man klaro trabaho ako Mama, unya gibiyaan pa jud mi sa Papa.
So every two months papahawaon mi kung dili mi kaabang sa balay nga gipuy-an.
Maghilak gud na akong mga younger sisters nga magbitbit og sako sudlanan sa sinina.

[madredrive]

bro soul_doctor do you believe in parallel world like naay laing dimension na like us but on different time frame or time density??

[cosplay]

@madredrive

He wouldn't be typing here if he did.