I remember something...
My BF told me once that a woman left him just because
"grabe ra kaayo siya ka-buotan"....
Yeah, he's really nice, VERY! Im well taken care of, I'm given the respect I deserve, treats me like a princess and gave me everything I wanted even though I wasnt asking for it but he knew what I wanted(which sweeps me off my feet!)....He makes me cry with happiness and he's killing me with laughter and gave me the best times ever!... and he surprises me with my favorite things every time we're together! Im becoming the envy of my friends and even my nieces wanted a man like him when they grow up, they once said after they saw how happier I've been eversince he came to my life(Im so LUCKY!) I see nothing wrong with him... Okay, maybe he gets a bit late on a few dates but I don't mind cuz I don't get bored waiting cuz I see a lot of things that I could get busy on that I just get surprised that he's tapping my shoulder just before I know it.
No one has a clue why a perfect man like my BF would be dumped/hurt by anyone... specially by a woman he once loved... Well, setting THAT aside, I'm still thankful 'cuz I have him in my arms already and Im keeping him!
Going back to the topic "Grabe ra kaayo ka-buotan"... In my opinion, it's a less offensive (but FRIGGIN' STUPID!) excuse to tell somebody. Who in the right mind would leave somebody who almost gave up his everything for you, gave you assurance and made you feel like to him, you are his whole universe?
If I put myself into the woman-who-dumped-him's shoes, the only reason why I could think of leaving him is because I'm not easily contented, I'm selfish, Imma numbskull that I ignored the obvious sacrifices and the gifts laid on my feet and because of my insecurities because I wanna be loved by a LOT of guys to prove that I'm attractive...which actually looks cheap for me... (A friend says, all CHEAP things have a lot of buyers! hahaha!).
Tsk! Why does this happen? Oh well, c'est la vie! Sh*t happens. It even happened to me once or twice or... I can't remember how many times hehehe!
BUT Whoever she is, she just lost what she never had! Im still thankful cuz if it wasn't for her, my beloved man wouldn't find me. And I found myself a keeper.
BTW, nobody's perfect, but each people have different versions of beautiful and it's up to chemistry, compatibility and a person's understanding how he/she decides who to keep...
As for my end, I found what I've been looking for and Imma take care of him for as long as I could!
---Good Vibes!