Your Lover's A Cheater? What would you do? Why?

[- Onette -]

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na ako? TRUE jud ko! ambot lng ang uban

[chellee]

i don't think so now a days, kay mu get even naman pud most gurls

[demonyito]

whoever replied yes r so naive!

[mango]

Why Women Cheat

You guys make it sound like you have to cheat. And you love to blame your wandering ways to genetics. Well, sit down, buddy, because according to most research, women are closing the gender gap when it comes to fooling around. Some polls even claim upwards of 60 percent of women cheat on a mate.Why would she do such a thing? Well, it's not her genes...

You Stopped Paying Attention

Of course she wanted to be your *** kitten when you were still plying her with compliments, planning romantic dinners, and surprising her with smooth *** moves. But now that you think you don't need to buy her dinner to get her in bed, she's wondering if she can't do a little better than you.

You Changed...Or Your Relationship Did

You got meaner. Or messier. Or suddenly decided that getting your lazy butt off the couch long enough to grab another beer from the fridge was suitable exercise for the day. While it's good to feel comfortable in your relationship, it doesn't give you permission to let yourself go. Unless you want to let her go.

You Cheated On Her

You got busted banging some other babe and now your gal wants to get even. Sadly, some chicks see your infidelity as a "get out of jail free" card that lets her indulge her own cheatin' heart without the consequences. There's a simple prevention method here: Don't cheat. And if you do, you'd better be unwaveringly reassuring in your feelings of remorse and reform. And maybe buy her something expensive and sparkly.

The Grass is Greener

Just like she'll cheat on her diet to taste that eclair, she might be tempted to treat herself to that tasty new guy in her office just because he's there and looking delicious. Maybe she's bored. Or maybe he's really the man of her dreams. (Hey, we said we'd tell you why women cheat; we didn't say you'd like all the reasons).

She's Just Evil

Some babes are just always looking out for the better deal. She could get off on the illicit thrill of flirting with the forbidden; she could just like toying with nice boys like you. Either way, your solutions are clear. Dump the dame or resign yourself to frequent screenings for STDs.


12 Signs of Cheating Men !

Yes, men really are this predictable. If a man cheats on his wife, there is little doubt that he will display a series of predictable behaviors. Ladies, don't be a fool. Learn the signs of infidelity so you can protect your relationship.

Infidelity expert and New York therapist Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil, author of "Make Up, Don't Break Up," told the Toronto Sun the 12 signs of cheating man:

1. He picks fights with you.

2. He acts unappreciated.

3. He becomes critical and finds fault with you.

4. He becomes distant and uncommunicative.

5. He changes his image or style, such as losing weight or buying new clothing.

6. He tells you there is something wrong with you and says you need to seek professional help.

7. He changes his behavior when it comes to money.

8. He changes his sexual behavior, including patterns, positions and frequency.

9. He buys you unexpected gifts and does good deeds, such as chores around the house or helping more with the children.

10. He has absences that he cannot explain.

11. There are hang-ups on your home phone.

12. He leaves earlier for work and arrives home later.


The statistics are cruel and heartbreaking. Some 35 percent of married men cheat on their wives, although Weil insists the number is closer to 70 percent of men. She also says that one partner has cheated in 80 percent of all marriages. So beware if he ever says this to you, which is typically the opening line of a cheating husband: "I would never cheat on you." If you hear this, you'll know instantly he's having an affair.

Elizabeth Landers and Vicky Mainzer agree with Weil that men exhibit very predictable behavior when it comes to infidelity. They wrote "The Script: The 100% Absolutely Predictable Thing Men Do When They Cheat" in which they claim cheaters follow the exact same script. Landers and Mainzer know this because they interviewed hundreds of women nationwide whose husbands cheated on them. Believe it or not, all of them heard the same lines and experienced the same actions over and over.

Call them the red flags of infidelity. Knowing them can help you identify the problem and possibly fix it so your marriage can survive. It won't be easy.

[sinsiyo]

She's just a devil: i definitely agree with this...she will not cheat if shes not a devil herself...

[sassy_suzzy]

maybe because, she's not contented with her man or she's simply not happy with the relationship...

[sinsiyo]

bakakon,liar, evil jud...

[Sanosuke]

Yeah... I agree with the said statement... 80% of these reasons is due to the boyfriend's/husband's mistreatment and unappreciation.

[tin2x_angel]

You Cheated On Her :::::: bawsanay lang guD!!!

[gunjack21]

its a bad sign if girls here are cheating also.. if you think or if your sure that you no longer needs your man tell him...break up with him..don't do something that will make no lesser than a prostitute..don't blame your man for his inconsistencies. tell him straight in his face that you are no longer happy with the way he is treating u...believe me , it will help you a lot ...