Why Do We Hurt The Ones We Love?

[rumsfield]

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nabirahan sa 3rd party? well ako ana, dili jud nako mapasaylo bro., kung ni balik xa nimo pahimolos sad...kayag sad sa todo(sa buntag og gabii) tapos col-of dayon hehehehehe....

[WinFlo]

it's really tempting to punish the person you love who has done you wrong. labi na kung grabe kaayo ang sakit nga iya nahatag sa imoha, lami kaayo tadtaron ug pinuti. pero i think it's God's right to punish people, mura la siguro ta katungod ana. all we can do is hope and pray nga makamata sila ug ma karma unta.

pero if we really love the person, siguro kung asa siya magmalipayon (if what he did made/makes him happy) aw di adto na lang siya. who are we to hold on to them when somebody else is holding their heart. di ba. ambot oi. ani jud ning mahigugma ka, makabuang, moagi ug daghan nga trials.

[captpoloy]

punish jed...
paub-on then hapakon ang sampot!

[edgeknife]

nope. just talk. kay minamahal natin ang mga babaye :mrgreen:

[exceed]

If its ok, can you pls tell the story...
We really cant give the best advice unless we know...
What's her sin diay bro?

[ross20]

cge dong! marikah tagay tah!!!!!!

[evs]

ingon ana gyud na imo ma feel basta bago pa lami kayo ibawos pero madugayan mahuwasan ra ka, so don't do anything drastic, you might regret it in the long run.....you'll get over the anger and pain. been there, done that and i'm glad i was calm about it....

[mhai...07]

not necessarily itself..a mistake can never be corrected by another mistake mn gd..
only time can tell and only can heal...
u dnt have to punish ur love one for hurting u or anybody else...
coz if they dont u wont learn and grow!!!!

[Gypsy]

I dont believe in punishing the one you love even if they wronged you, For me its either you forget about it and move on with you lives or you dont forgive the person thus you decide on how you want your relationship to be,should you continue being with that person? Getting even or doing punishment doestn resolve the conflict it just cause more hurt and confusion that can lead to the relationship turning apart.

[nolex]

of course not.....