UnsaY BaTi Sa SobRa Ka Bo-Otan? TurN-Off DiaY JuD Na? :-(

[PseudoSurgeon]

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Murag turn off jud ni. Kay gibuwagan ko nya giingnan sad ko nga buotan ra kay ko. Sobraan ra daw akong kabuotan niya. Maskin para nako kay di jud ko buotan.
Lisod kaayo spellingon kay kung magminaldita, mureklamo pero kung magbinuotan reklamo sad. haha. Hahay life.

[wikadoodles]

buotan sometimes is boring... sobra ka maldita is suffocating to guys.. moderation lang.. sometimes ur maldita,,,sometimes ur buotan.. boys like it man gud f mgminaldita ang mgpa kipot ka usahay.. they find it challenging

[quirkychinita]

Buotan? there's no harm or no such thing such as turn off sa buotan...

But maybe what we mean is ma-misunderstood ang buotan sa:

-Motherly
-Too Needy/dependent
-Too Predictable
-Being too humble

Basically, anything too much is not so good, ladies!


1. Being too motherly.... From what I've observed, guys loved to be pampered after a long day's work. Pero usahay, too much isn;t really what they love. Okay ra unta kung u cook him dinner (tell u honestly, my dad and even my college buddies confess that di kaayo mag-matter saila if lami or dili ang imu giluto, as long as dili siya galihok or dili makadaut sa tiyan or makamatay, payts na! But I still cook the best that I could anyway kay passion naman jud nako magluto daan and no-one can do anythng about it!)

the downside about this one? Kung masubraan to the point that u become the exact replica of his mother... Nagging, care too much to the point na ikaw nay muhungit on everything na ibutang sa ba-ba, pati balon halos kuwang na lang ibutang sa lunchbox.... etc....

Im not saying na ayaw na gyud i pamper ang lovey dovey.. whatIm saying is that don't overdo it. If you show too much of it, mao na nang makaturn off.

2. being Too Needy/dependent- "I can't live without you!" "Please don't go, Im gonna die!" "I Love you until it hurts me!" "I need you all the time!!!" .... Sometimes, guys wants women who could stand up for themselves... Kapuy baya usahay na ang knight in shining armour while naay battle sa pikas kingdom, dili pud baya lalim na mudagan siyag kalit for his damsel in distress kay dili siya kahibaw unsaon pag open sa botelya sa Coke on a hot day. Although they wanna be needed and they wanna feel stronger, para ma brush ila ego, ayaw lang gyud i-overdo. Bawal na ang OA!


3. Being Too Predictable- It doesnt hurt to let your man know everything you are doing and wherever you are going, cuz by default, your man always have the protective instincts. But sometimes, men likes a little bit of mystery to keep them guessing (and surprised!). Try going a different route usahay pud. Something out of the ordinary! I know one friend of mine na sigeg katingala nganung NBSB sya and iyang mauyab kay taman ra sa text and if magkita man gani sila in person, LDR ang gawas and won;t last for months. I asked one of her ex BF sa text... He was too honest that he told me that she was too predictable and he even called her "SUMO"/"NAKAKASAWA" mura dawng love song na everyday na gapatukaron until it gets boring and you look for another one. WARNING: Im not saying you should keep too much secrets from him! That's different!


4. Being too humble-- "I am SOOOO FAT! May pa siya o, way tiyan!" "I hate my nose! It looks like shrek's nose!!!" "Mura kog budbod sakong gisuot!"... It doesnt sound like being humble to me... It sounds a lot like insecurities.... Although, maka turn off pud ang hambugera, pero samut na ang babae na i-turn down ug ayo ilang self. Nothing makes a woman more uglier in the eyes of a man than her insecurities. Even my BF tells me that. Even my dad and my bayaw does think the same... Busa siguro akong papa di jud undang na sige ko niyag ingnun na gwapa kaayo ko bisan 200lbs overweight ko or bisan I was in the middle of a break up na GGB kaayo kog life and nawng! hahahah! Ladies, be comfortable in your own skin. The most effective beauty regimen ever would be confidence! Your imperfections makes you perfect! People have different versions of beautiful! And also, remember this: WALAY TAWO NA PANGIT, PERO NAAY TAWO NA HINAWAYUN! One more thing, if a guy you like or your man compliments how pretty/beautiful you are, don't ward it off or contradict it. Say thank you or simply smile and give him a kiss...

Bottom line, do not overdo things... And keep your self respect and dignity. Learn to love yourself before you love him. There's a thin line between loving him too much and making a doormat out of yourself.

Be confident, feel sexy underneath that jersey/sweat shirt, be a b**ch once in a while (In a good way!) and be that sexy mysterious woman your man has ever longed for.


----Good Vibes!

[_hizuka_]

sign na ni nga nangita na c TS og uyab .... klaro na sa pattern duts!

[Dorothea]

My hubby is super buotan. I love it of course nga buotan kaayo siya. Pero usahay I tell him, it's ok for him to tell me NO once in a while, mag minaldito pud siya usahay ba, but not too much and not too often kay mag lagot pud ko ana.

[winjwheel]

buotan sometimes is boring... sobra ka maldita is suffocating to guys.. moderation lang.. sometimes ur maldita,,,sometimes ur buotan.. boys like it man gud f mgminaldita ang mgpa kipot ka usahay.. they find it challenging

Korek jud...bati man pud gud kon walay challenge...balansehon gud para naay thrill!!heheheh..

[domzgnrlover86]

bati rajud nang subraans kabuotan....challenge jud nang maypagka madlitahon sad para nako pero kanang nas saktong lugar mag minaldita...

[vahnhelsing]

akong klarohon be.. bootan nga naay baroganan.
kuyaw man gud na ang bootan kaayo kay dili na kahibaw mobalibad.
ampay kaau ni pare..

[hulagway]

@ts..sus ayaw jud na usba imo batasan...kay mao jud na among gpangita..kung sa storya pa..Kanang BABAYE nga mabilin ug BALAY...

[kageron]

Murag turn off jud ni. Kay gibuwagan ko nya giingnan sad ko nga buotan ra kay ko. Sobraan ra daw akong kabuotan niya. Maskin para nako kay di jud ko buotan.
Lisod kaayo spellingon kay kung magminaldita, mureklamo pero kung magbinuotan reklamo sad. haha. Hahay life.

hahaha

turn off ang sobra kabuotan especially kanang wala sa lugar og walay valid reason.