Letting Go of the One you Love

[madzZz]

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but sometimes we have to accept the fact if
mas maau jud to let go the person u love for some reason..
well it's sad, very sad..

but wala man ta mahimo...
mao na gi ingon you're not meant to be...



try to heal nalang someday

[j_puffy]

depende sa sapot ay este sabot diay hahaha!

[madzZz]

mao jud... depende ra jud na ninyong duha unsa ang maayo buhaton para ninyo...
and i hope lang walay masakitan bah...

[bitch_adrienne]

katzki: yes being unselfish is really painful. and letting go sucks... but sometimes it's the only thing one can do...

goes back to this:

the irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go.

[rheine]

if she decides or implies that you are not doing any good to her then maybe you should let go because you love her. but if you really really love her, you should fight for it you know. you can do that by trying to be a better person for her....and if after several attempts of trying to be the best you could be for her and she still cannot accept you as you are then...guess both of you should separate ways.

but you're saying that you think you're not good enough for her...i think you should let her decide that.

[Julia78]

Hi! hope my testimony help!

Letting go is never been so easy. I was once in your place and the PAIN is really something!


If you can still patch things up, why not do it! Letting go and breaking up should be your last option.
A real nice talk can help. Point out the things that trigger the situation much. Make some compromise. Or both of you might need some space, maybe to help think things better.

Whatever the results is, just be gentle and respect it. Though it may cause you so much pain, its better to give the freedom she needed. Its hurts you doubled, first seeing her no longer happy with you and end up feeling sorry for it...feeling sorry for yourself... don't let "self-pity" drag you. One day you wake up feeling useless and neglected. Just accept things as it was or is... I know its not easy done but we can't do anything if love choses to leave.

Maybe God has better plans for both of you. Who knows in time you are really meant to be. Just keep on praying and be strong. Things get better. Life is so mysterious, unexpected things happened but everything has its reason. For now we can't understand all of it but in time we will. But time itself will choose its moment.


Take it from me, Never think that you are a failure just because the person you love is no longer happy being with you... As long as you did your best in saving your relationship, you've done your part of it.


Sometimes life throws So much at us… We afraid we won’t be able to hold on... Remember everything in life happens for a reason and that GOD WILL NEVER GIVE US MORE THAN WE CAN HANDLE. Pain is just another way of proving ourselves just how strong we truly are.

GOOD LUCK & GOD BLESS!

[AMD_infinium05]

@istorya:
wow.... nice.

[kiat_kaau_kusion_beh:-)]

if letting go or leaving is the only or last recourse we've got then why not if it is for the betterness of the situation of both parties.

[anTh0Ny]

That'd depend on what your purpose is. If both alternatives hurt, might as well take the one that only hurts you.

[anTh0Ny]

Well, I find that putting out good karma and vibe generally results in benefit for me as well. But yeah, I know some people like that and I think that's a really sad way to live. Doesn't only hurt them but you as well.