Why Do We Hurt The Ones We Love?

[nolex]

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for what she has the right to commit mistakes... and i have the right to decide what's best for ourselves... so no punishments...

[jefelin]

nope...cuz i dont have the heart to hurt the one i love n i care.... u just have to settle things wid her n talk to her

[inyourface]

grabeha . . punishan man sad . .
ak0 ra ipanawng sa iya iyang gibuhat . . amp cya. .
mapulihan na ang love sa kalagot . . buiwagan daUn . .

[friendly amiga :-)]

no i will never jed.. bhala na c Lord niya kay Xa ra nakahibaw sa tanan nahitabo jed :mrgreen:

[syrenn]

akoa nlang na cya e ampo oi

[rumsfield]

na unsa man karl007? u ben cheated? does it involve 3rd party? jas take it easy bro. if she's going back to you then you know she's yours ayaw pasakita binayot na ana bro na style. Be gentheldog naman....

[titaniumbox]

parehas ra ta karl007,, i believe naay 3rd party pod involved sa x-gf na nako..bag-o lang me ngbulag.. just let go nalang bro..mao na ako buhaton. remember Pain = The difference between our expectation and what actually is... so just let go nalng jud.. basta limpyo atong consyenxa..been faithful and loyal to her..pero unsaon ta man..binuangan raman diay hinuon tah.. must move on nalng and hopefully we'll meet the right person for us..

[karl007]

Thank you sa inyong mga advices. If nakabasa palang mo sa akong last year na topic twas really really painful and it's almost one year na nahitabo tong hitaboa and it is still painful and it keeps on coming back again and again. Although she came back right after she did something wrong but deep inside there's this longing that someday somehow... they would feel my rage 10000000 times. Deep inside my thoughts, there's still a struggle, a massive clot of anger and hate.

We've been together for pila na ka years and I know that she loves me and I love her but I wanna do the things that she did and I wanna let her feel what I felt before and I wanna let her realize the things that what she did was really really wrong. I wanna let her regret 100% for the things that she did. She asked sorry and I know that partly nag regret sya but I want it full, I want her regret as in 100% and if she can't do that then probably I would things para makaregret sya.

Planning and planning bisag wala sya kahibaw ana. Kasabot ko guys sa inyong pasabot nga dili nalang and if I am in your shoes, I would give the same words that you told me.

Sometimes makahuna huna lang ko nga kinahanglan bako og 'shrink' para maclear akong mind. I know that there's a sleeping demon sa akong self and that also scares me...

[Streetcar]

No. It takes two to tango. Its your action/decision to love that person di ba?

[bobochacha23]

It is natural for us humans to feel that way when the one we truly love hurt us and did something wrong to us. And sometimes the challenge there is keeping that love for that person and by by forgiving him/her for whatever he/she had done. Revenge is satisfying at first because we let the person who hurts us feel how they made us feel, but after that does it change anything or are we just hurting ourselves more by hurting the person we used to love?Sometimes, we tend to do those things because our pride was wounded and we felt betrayed by what they did but I guess the best way to deal with it is think of the happy moments that you have and learn to let go of that person with love. Anyway, it is not your loss!