What if you are the spare tire?

[Alternator]

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if spare tire lang ka, bya.e lang na emong partner..

pero sa panahon karon, mas daghan ang female sa male, so dako posibility nga naa uban female ma spare nalang. sad but truth..

[sandy2007]

^^ mao jud vhan..

@TS - don't try to think that it will still work because it won't and don't try to keep ang fight for it because you know that it is not worth keeping ang fighting for..

hai..it's been a long time since i last read this thread..thanks sis..i know you don't want me hurt..im still going through the same pain i did when i first started this thread..but at least now..i can smile and talk and act as though nothing's wrong..im not so depressed anymore..just a lil bit..but i am doing what it takes to let go..it's just that now i don't have the resources to just up and leave..but i have come to accept the fact that it really is not worth fighting for..it seems i am the only one striving in this relationship..but because i am in love..i am loving unconditionally..but everything has its right time to end..and maybe mine's now..

slowly letting go..thanks sis for being there all throughout..and thanks everyone for the pieces of advice..i am still hurting and would love to read more of what you have in mind today..

thanks..

[sandy2007]

kamusta nmn ni n thread rn?..^^

[sandy2007]

i've been bouncing back..and still bouncing back..trying to achieve more momentum with each bounce..i just might reach that goal..hehehe..i'm almost there..

[RainDrizzle07]

I don't want to sound harsh nor sarcastic but I will still sound like it.

why would you stay in that situation? because you love him?

WTF!!!

You need to love yourself first and then love yourself more, in that way you can differentiate what is it that you really need and want.

And at the same time you won't be as insecure, inferior and as pathetic as you are now, thus agreeing to such set up.

And honestly, he doesnt deserve you, so let go.

Bitaw miga, ka ng love..sus..pd ra na ipang labay karong panahona..ayaw pa ilad anah.. ^_^

Share lang nako 1 of my Fave song..
(karaan man toud pero make sense)



I believe the children are our are future
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride to make it easier
Let the children's laughter remind us how we used to be
Everybody searching for a hero
People need someone to look up to
I never found anyone to fulfill my needs
A lonely place to be
So I learned to depend on me

[Chorus:]
I decided long ago, never to walk in anyone's shadows
If I fail, if I succeed
At least I live as I believe
No matter what they take from me
They can't take away my dignity
Because the greatest love of all
Is happening to me
I found the greatest love of all
Inside of me
The greatest love of all
Is easy to achieve
Learning to love yourself
It is the greatest love of all

I believe the children are our future
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride to make it easier
Let the children's laughter remind us how we used to be

[Chorus]

And if by chance, that special place
That you've been dreaming of
Leads you to a lonely place
Find your strength in love


Apply/Reflect the song with your situation ^_^

-how a child easily laughs at anything and doesnt bother nor complicate their life with a lot of bul*sh*t!
and we have been a child once or we are still a child @ heart..

-in life we do have our parents/family & Friends that we can really depend on, pero in the real battle, we don't have anybody but ourselves to depend too..

-you don't need to follow someone, you don't need to compromise yourself or your happiness because of someone or something. what important is you did not make anybody feel they are lesser of a person than you are.

- When you stop compromising yourself because of someone or something, and you will start loving yourself you will discover how strong you are as a person and bsag unsa pa ng bagyoha kaya kaayo nmo barogan.. ^_^

Maybe you can say its easier said than done, trust me girl, been there before and I don't want to go back ( not the spare thing, but a situation where you will feel insecure,inferior, pathetic & useless)

hope this helps. I apologize for lashing out ^_^

[sandy2007]

apology accepted..hehehe..you okay sis?..don't burn yourself out on account of me..hehehe..like I said..i'm bouncing back..i accept that I had fallen and would have stayed fallen had I not decided it was time to be up and about with my own life..so here I am..doing what it takes to get back on my feet..accepting my past as it was and moving on with what was left of my dignity..you're right..i don't ever have to compromise myself for anyone who can't do the same for me..


that said..i don't think anyone can ever do the same for me..and so I thank the experiences that have taught me to become strong. ^___^

[ranzzz]

lingawa nimo ana sa? ligid ka sa sakyanan hahahaha buslotan nako ang ligid para ako puli hahahah

[sandy2007]

go jud dayon..hehehe

[anubiz]

bhla uroy ka.. ngeta ko lain

[prettylicious]

at least I can be useful hehehe martyr bah ui