MERGED : All about "cool off"

[LeoD]

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cool off, if ang ga ask kay bsn naa nay nagustuhan lain. Pero katong kami pa sa akong ex, ako may ga ask ug cool off, pero wala ko lain na gustuhan na bae. then pag ask nako nakita nako na na sad cya so wala nako g dayun, because I just really love her, don't want to hurt her, and having a problem in a relationship needs to be solve by booth parties.

[beyee]

I don't buy that crap.

Buwag gali, buwag.

Simply prolonging the agony if Mao na.

[larisse]

I don't buy that crap.

Buwag gali, buwag.

Simply prolonging the agony if Mao na.

sakto bey

uyab or dili, there's no such thing as middle ground

[Nami_1217]

we all would agree that relationships has it's ups and downs, even in a healthy relationship at some point it will grow through some slump. i guess my questions are, how often does it happen?, how long is the cool off period?, can relationships recover?, and is it a bad sign?

all opinions are appreciated...

sus nay nagsulti nako nga "give me time.." " di pa man ta buwag" pero tua naa nay uyab lain.. mao wa ko kasabot unsa nang cool off

[gracie7]

The term "cool off" usually refers to a temporary breakup in a relationship. It's agreed upon by the couple as a time for them to take a break and just think if they want to continue with the relationship or not. There are also times when they agree to get back together after a few days or weeks or even months. But there are also a few times when it becomes a prelude. The decision rests entirely on what the couple talked about before the cool off period.

I'm not a fan of cool off moments in a relationship, honestly. I find it pointless, because it will leave both of you confused and with questions like 'Where is this relationship going?', 'Is there still an US?' or 'Are we going to be okay again?'