To all those MARRIED: How's your Marital Life?

[martiristic]

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It was never in my wildest imagination that my husband will turn out this way. He has been a dutiful and responsible husband which are even the reasons I quit my job to dedicate my time to the family. Maayo kaayo ni siya manaway ug mga bana nga badlungon, mga anak nga sayo magkiat-kiat ug uban pa nga makaingon ka nga tarong siya. Gi condition daiay niya akong mind para musalig ko niya pag ayo ug dili ko magduda bisan gamay nga mas grabe pod siya ug binuhatan. The advancement in the technology is a contributing factor pod kay magamit pod kini para sa mga hidden agenda. Ang bisyo man gud ini nila is to join chat rooms and upon seeing the girls on cam choose the prettiest and ask for their contact numbers so they need not go online as often anymore. Maka timing pa gyud ug mga hooker gyud nga maayo mu ulo ulo so the rest is history... I always catch him texting with his hand on the the phone inside the open cabinet pero muingon ra ni siya nga dunay spam text pirmi ang iyang phone or mi text na pod iyang mga igsuon. Tungod sa kasayon na sa communication wit the family, dili na ni sila mingawon and instead mangita na hinuon ug thrill thru meeting new "friends". I advise wives out there to be extra vigilant on your husband before its too late. Believe on "woman instincts" kay tagsa ray masipyat ini. Mao pod nay gikalibgan nako kung ang phone puwede ba nga access sa asawa or is there such a thing as "respect of privacy" with it.

He hasn't called ever since I confronted him but my kids told me nga dunay magsige ug panawag sa amoa nga dili mutingog kung tubagon. I suspect nga ang ako ning husband ug gibati na seguro ug kauwaw mutingog or gimingaw na sa mga bata mao nga bisan tingog lang iyang madungog ok na niya. Confused pod sila how should they answer him.

I'm glad I came across this forum kay at least duna koy nahimong outlet on what is going though in my mind and heart. Hope I can also share tips nga mabantayan sa mga wife ang mga signs of infidelity before it goes out of proportion.

[lejean]

my answer to the thread:

9months bf/gf
11 months married

i must say adjusting period pa mi sako husband and im on the verge of filing an annulment kay mura jud walay padulngan...

[ritchepaul]

1 year and 1 day

Quite a mess...for there people even prohibits us from seeing or even communicating with each other. *Unsa man mi sa akong wife...uyab?!*

Major Factor:
My wife's parents

[whiskey]

sometimes i asked myself why iam in this situation now.Getting married is nice especially kng naa na mo bb.pro kng mgpabadlong ang bana....mkaingon ka na enuf.......

[rubymae]

AS for me, my husband & I are 12 years of gap. And I am happily married to him. Maybe bcos he is family minded already & had enjoyed his life to the fullest, naage na nya tanan kabuang while he was single...We've known each other for 2 years lang. He is an aggressive man. I was just learning to get some experience of it. Then I got pregnant & I wasn't really prepared for it. I didnt know if it's right to marry or not. But I was glad he married me. I married becos I'm already pregnant. I didnt really know him that much. But I thanked God He gave me a good husband. Right now our baby is 1 year & 5 months old. He is very caring & family oriented which he was not when I knew him before. & He is gorgeous & masculine too & extrovert. Like my knight in shining armour...I loved him more when we got married...ANd He was very proud of our daughter..

[edddder]

currently our married life is very harmonous, im very thankful to have a very understanding and caring wife. and a very lovable mother to our son.

[salbahis]

my married life is a mess, kay ang akong asawa pwerteng ka barkadista, laagan ug palainom... may trabaho pero walay klaro... ako na siya gipalayas sa amoa... nibalik gihapon.... bagaa kay ug nawng...

mao rana....

[rockford_fosgate09]

Ot: ^oi! mura kaila ko nimo dah

[8_cRawlin_baby_8]

so far so good for us. 6 years ang gap namo sa akong hubby. he was 31 and i was 25 when we get married. we both came from long term relationships, sya 9 yrs w/ his gf but ni-left turn ang girl. ako from 3 yrs pero ni-left turn sad ang boy. we're bf's & gf's for 4 months lang and i got pregnant. it was a planned pregnancy though, no regrets at all.

he already enjoyed his youth days as much as i have enjoyed mine.

so here we are now, happily married and contented with what we have, with a bubbly kiddo who never fails to make us laugh but of course having God as a center of our married life.

[okoy]

For me bro, its eight ( years since we got married, but oh boy my wife doesn't want to understand my likings, she usually objects to what i always wanted to do. In the end, tago2x lang pero dili nang mga prohibited nga activities kanang lang mga sports activity ug drinking activity, matay pag mosugot dili gyud. Iyang gusto mag-atubang ko nya pirme ug sa mga bata, wala na koy kaugalingon nga space (hahaha giluod lang ko) bitaw lisod gyud.

For my parents sa akong analisar murag oppose sila sa akong wife pero sa akong mga kids grabeh nila ka pinangga. Mag-labad akong ulo ug hunahuna unsaon nalang ni akong kinabuhi DLI sya perfect as what i expect it to be... HAAAAY maypa matay... Hahahaha... simba ko lang.... LOL...