Same DREAM

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kuyawa ani oi

[jiro81]

bro, no offense but if the dream keeps on coming back, maybe it needs help na.. just a thought. peace!

hey, we ol hav freakin dreams.. and its our body's way of keeping our sanity intact.. unless it's botherin you to the point of life and death situation then you gotta do somthin bout it..

im not tryin to play expert here.. but accdg to what i read

"..The prime function of dreams is to metaphorically act out undischarged emotional arousals that were not acted out during the previous day. By dreaming we complete the arousal/dearousal circuit so as to wake up with an unstressed autonomic nervous system and our instincts intact.."

and as to what i understand maybe you had experienced something before that you are trying to supressed may it be traumatic/delusional/ecstatic or whatever and it keeps going out in your dreams..

dont worry romano just be thankful that you still dreams at night and not at daytime cuz that means your still f*** n normal.. ehehehe

[juan_carlos]

jiro is right romano, unless its bothering you to the point that you can no longer function normally, you don't need psychological help. disregard darkhorse's comment.

this is what i gather from your dream so far. the fact that it is reoccuring indicates that something must be bothering you really bad. and whatever this is thats bothering you, it must be something that you find threatening to entertain in real (waking) life.

so sa bisaya pa, naa ka gidala na issue sa imu kinabuhi na bug-at dayon di ka ganahan imu cya i face kay basin against sa imuhang concept of right or wrong. or pwed sad na di ka nahan nga i entertain ning issueha kay mahadlok ka na malain nya ang tan aw sa mga tawo nmu, especially kana mga tawo na importante pra nmu. the fact na maungot gyud ka sa bridge den dili ka ka-labang bsan gusto nmu, telling sad kaayo ni. symbolic man kaayo gud, crossing the bridge, it really seems like you wnat to move on to something different in your life but something is holding you back. also tungod kay dugay ra ni nmu nadamgo elementary pamn kaha ka, dugay ra diay gyud ni nmu gustong buhaton pro di lan gyud nmu kaya.

if while reading this naa musulod sa imu huna huna, chances are mao na cya ang issue na ako gpasabot even though ganahan ka na imu ideny. normal na kay that is called resistance.mao btaw na sa damgo rani nigawas kay ngil-ad cguro ni pra nmu. pro if gusto gyud ka na masabtan nmu ning damgoha you have to follow my instructions and be as honest with yourself and to me as possible. if we are heading into uncomfortable and private territory, i will be more than happy to continue this via email or pm. and you can rest assured that your information is safe with me as i value confidentiality.

[romano2717]

jiro is right romano, unless its bothering you to the point that you can no longer function normally, you don't need psychological help. disregard darkhorse's comment.

this is what i gather from your dream so far. the fact that it is reoccuring indicates that something must be bothering you really bad. and whatever this is thats bothering you, it must be something that you find threatening to entertain in real (waking) life.

so sa bisaya pa, naa ka gidala na issue sa imu kinabuhi na bug-at dayon di ka ganahan imu cya i face kay basin against sa imuhang concept of right or wrong. or pwed sad na di ka nahan nga i entertain ning issueha kay mahadlok ka na malain nya ang tan aw sa mga tawo nmu, especially kana mga tawo na importante pra nmu. the fact na maungot gyud ka sa bridge den dili ka ka-labang bsan gusto nmu, telling sad kaayo ni. symbolic man kaayo gud, crossing the bridge, it really seems like you wnat to move on to something different in your life but something is holding you back. also tungod kay dugay ra ni nmu nadamgo elementary pamn kaha ka, dugay ra diay gyud ni nmu gustong buhaton pro di lan gyud nmu kaya.

if while reading this naa musulod sa imu huna huna, chances are mao na cya ang issue na ako gpasabot even though ganahan ka na imu ideny. normal na kay that is called resistance.mao btaw na sa damgo rani nigawas kay ngil-ad cguro ni pra nmu. pro if gusto gyud ka na masabtan nmu ning damgoha you have to follow my instructions and be as honest with yourself and to me as possible. if we are heading into uncomfortable and private territory, i will be more than happy to continue this via email or pm. and you can rest assured that your information is safe with me as i value confidentiality.

i can actually relate to one of your expalanations...
"also tungod kay dugay ra ni nmu nadamgo elementary pamn kaha ka, dugay ra diay gyud ni nmu gustong buhaton pro di lan gyud nmu kaya." as i remember correctly sukad2x pag ELEMENTARY nko wala mn koy gi tago sko pamilya or sa ubang taw, og wala sd koy na hinomduman na naa koy gustong buhaton na di nko kaya.. ang weird lng kay karon na COLLEGE nko, naa osa ka current situation skong life na gusto jd nkong buhaton pro di jd nko kaya kay naa osa ka taw na masakitan jd kung buhaton ni nko mao ako nlng jd gi tago.
but it doesnt make any sense mn cguro kay basi sa imong interpretation, if i understand you correctly, ingon ka na "dugay ra ni nmu nadamgo elementary pamn kaha ka, dugay ra diay gyud ni nmu gustong buhaton pro di lan gyud nmu kaya." kaning damgoha elementary pko unya karon rko nka kaplag og ing-ane na sitwasyon wherein naa koy gusto buhaton na di nko kaya. 8 months nani nkong gi dala kane na secreto sa osa ka taw na importante sa akoa - wala mn cguro ni relation sa akong damgo na ng sugod pg elementary pa kay kron raman na collge nko anha ra nko ma relate ang imong explanation.. damgo from elementary years karun lng ma realize ang meaning nig college nah? pde ba na?

[juan_carlos]

it is a bit more complicated but to give you a short answer yes it is possible. not necessarily na ang meaning sa dream karon preha sa meaning sa dream sauna. posible na naka encounter ka ug similar situation (note that when i say similar, i do not mean the exact same) before and nibalik ang dream karon. i am interpreting your dream based on theme. kay di ko ka indepth interpret item by item kay i need to talk to you in person to do that. in any case i think i have given you something to start with. examine your current life situation and try to see if naa paka additional na marelate sa dream or not. also naa ko additional question, how do you feel about keeping this secret from that important person? is this secret something that might be considered bad or unacceptable? again if not comfortable ka mo discuss in person, pm me.

[juan_carlos]

i meant in public

[romano2717]

it is a bit more complicated but to give you a short answer yes it is possible. not necessarily na ang meaning sa dream karon preha sa meaning sa dream sauna. posible na naka encounter ka ug similar situation (note that when i say similar, i do not mean the exact same) before and nibalik ang dream karon. i am interpreting your dream based on theme. kay di ko ka indepth interpret item by item kay i need to talk to you in person to do that. in any case i think i have given you something to start with. examine your current life situation and try to see if naa paka additional na marelate sa dream or not. also naa ko additional question, how do you feel about keeping this secret from that important person? is this secret something that might be considered bad or unacceptable? again if not comfortable ka mo discuss in person, pm me.

ok ra dre nlng ta discuss ane bai, careful mn sd ko sa mga details na akong e hatag.
first, im not sure if this is a timely question, i just forgot to ask you this when you first ask me to describe my dream, but anyways, are you a dream analyst or something like that?

ok karun mahitungod sa imong gi ask, kane na sekreto bai "BAD" jd ni kay namakak mn ko nya, pro di pamakak na gi buhat nko "physically", emotional lng. di jd gus2 mkbaw cya ane kay masakitan jd to cya.

sa pag ka karun, wla nmn koy laeng ma relate sa akong dream. ang kane rajd gi dala nko na sekreto.

pro bai, unsa may koneksyon sa akong damgo sauna sa current situation sa akong life karon na ang person involved sa akong current situation kay bag-o pmn nko na ilhan. wala mn ko kita ane nya pag elementary nko.. gi unsa pag ka connect sa sauna og karun? liboga ane oi

[juan_carlos]

i am someone with a background in psychology who also happens to be a big fan of dr freud. i have read only a little of his work but am constantly being amazed to see most of his ideas operating in real life. you can consider this a little hobby for me. i have only interpretd a few dreams, partly bcoz not too many people come to me asking for their dream's meaning and also because i tend to forget about this unique hobby of mine in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. your post caught my attention though and has reawakend my interest in this subject. forgive me if i seem too eager to analyze your dream, this is art for art's sake for me and a godd learning experience as i have never attempted to do anything like this online. i will now attempt to answer your question but in doing so i will necessarily need to delve into details and will use mostly englsh as i can explain and express much better in this medium. if you there are any points that are not clear for you. highlight them to me and i will try to break them down.

i have tried to think of the best way to answer your question and have decided that an example is probably the most effective. before i move on, please understand dream interpretation is not an exact science, not even a science. this is due to the very nature of the subject itself. the dreams themselves are incredibly subjective that an exact same dream will mean different things to different dreamers. my own interpretations will most likely contain projections from my subconcious and i will therefore rely on you to verify them. that said, i will need you to be aware of your reactions and to keep on guard for feelings of resistance, there is a saying in psychoanalysis that goes: where there is resistance, there is repression. once you feel that i have said something that for some reason offends you or makes you go on the defensive, i urge you to reexamine that particular something as honestly as you possibly can, as this is an indicator that i have touched on sensitive and critical material. material which may be the very key to unlocking your dream . ultimately only the dreamer himself possesses the information necessary to unlock a dream's meaning. the different objects.situations in your dream, (bridge, pipe, office,LACK of people) are all symbolisms for objects situations in real waking life. also i have discovered that dreams like movies (action, drama, horror) have themes. the theme for your particular dream seems to be, as i have mentioned in my previous reply: wanting to move on to something but not being able to. i stress the importance of themes because this may be the answer to your question of the connection between past and present.

this is now a description of an actual dream interpretation i did (actually i was with several other people when doing this). the person had a reoccuring dream from childhood (college na cya at this time) the dream was large ball-like structures pressing down on him. very simple dream, not much material to analyze. so we tried to interpret the dream using a gestalt technique of dream interpretation (gestalt is a form of psychotherapy, one of the many offshoots from psychoanalysis). we had the person relive his dream in real-life. we had him lie down close his eyes and go back to the dream. we then began applying pressure to his whole body by lying on pillows placed on top of him (to simulate the ball-like structures pressing down on him in the dream) in probably 2-3minutes images came to the person's awareness and he began talking back angrily to those images. it turned out he was talking to some members of his family who he perceived as trying to push him down. now, is that the reason why he dreamed this in the first place when he was younger? i dont know. is this the reason why he is dreaming this now? i cant say for sure all i can tell you is he came to that awareness without any outside influences. he came to that awareness by himself. all we did was to make him relive the dream and put pressure on him so he could feel how he was feeling in the dream. the theme of his dream was, him being pressed down. in his dream it was literal, in real life it was symbolic. had this dream not been interpreted ,it is possible that he would dream this again each time he encountered a situation in his life when he felt put down. the point here is, it was the theme that is important. it does not matter that you have not known this person that concerns you now, back when you were in elementary. because that is not the reason why you are re experiencing your dream. the reason is that you encountered a situation back then (you wanted to move on to something different but was not able to because of external,internal or both kinds of restrictions) that situation is the theme of your dream back then. i am theorizing that your dream so accurately and exquisitely represented your desire and situation that your "dream factory" (i am making up this term to represent the psychological mechanism/s responsible for dream creation), upon encountering a similar situation in your life now (wanting to move on to something different but not being able to) decided to recycle and reuse the dream.

same life (theme) situation=same dream theme=same dream again do not get caught up with the fact that you did not know this person before. the theme is the key here. the theme is the connection.

i hope that makes things clearer

[jiro81]

taasa sab oi.. mag pa interpret nya ko sa imo juan_carlos.. hehehe

[romano2717]

Salamat juan_carlos, I guess e end nlng ni nto ang discussion bwt sko dream. bisan unsa pa na interpretation ang mahatag , sakto mn o sayop, ako rjd ang mka tubag ane. but anyways thank you! now I have something to start with this mystery dream of mine. thanks for the details. cheers!