Guys, i need your opinion please

[MrsJack]

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Guys, whenever i have extramoney I always think what to buy for us. Pra sa akong partner sa akong baby wala na gali para nako. Mo palit ko ug grocery para namo pero akong partner noh maka sakit jud sa heart. Nag kamoney siya wala jud mi katilaw bisag peso. Nalain jud ko. ni buy siya ug stuff namahal jud. Nya sige siya ug ingon walay money. Dili ba selfish siya? i know its his money pero atleast mo share to siya ug gamay. sensitive ra ba kaayo ko?

You are thinking and behaving like a mother in your own family.
But your hubby is thinking he is still single and is still in college.

You definitely can go on without him.

Isulod na og sako iya mga things & clothes nya ibutang sa gawas sa balay!

[naturalsolutionscebu]

since family mo dapat e share jud. try talking to him about it but if d siya willing mo change then leave him. you'll be better of without him since he is so selfish.

[femchien]

ok raman mopalit sya para sa iyang kaugalingon .. pero dili pud permihon .. ok ranang kausa or kaduha , its his money anyway ..

pero kung magcge nalang sya ug palit nga mga mahalon nga butang for himself only , di nana maayo .. karon nga minyo na sya , he should think of his family first .. kamo ang e prioritize niya .. you should open up to your partner about that .. dapat naa pud syay ika contribute dili kay modawat ra syag limpyo ug maniguro rag iya ..

[mondragon]

ayaw paduloga TS, para mutagam..

[whitelily]

Hi all! thanks sa inyong mga replies I felt better reading na somehow my reaction was normal

Heres my answers sa inyong mga questions.

*No, dili mi kasal. Nag live together me just recently pero uyab mi for more than 5 yrs.
*Mo share man sad siya sa grocery. Actually tunga mi sa grocery pero strickly mao rajud like among budget for grocery is 4k every month, 2000 iya no more than that. D man gud mi mag dungan ug grocery. Mag iyahay mi kay mag away man mi ug mag kuyog mi.
*tunga-tunga mi sa mga bills and all pero ang ako rman jud na lainan is kung naa koy extra money mo share jud ko niya usahay mo hatag gani ko niya. Then para maka save sa grocery akoy mo shoulder sa grocery for that month basta naa lng jud koy extra sa ila jud tanan punta i was expecting the same from him. Sala ra sad nako taas kaayo ko ug expectation.

I will talk to him about this kay naka basa sad ko dire from another post na "communication is key jud para mowork out ang relationship" and "money is the number 1 reason why couples break-up"

Thank you guys sa pag pansin aning akong post. Nag sakit japon akong heart mag tan-aw sa iyang gipalit pero yes its hes money wala koy mahimo.

[yhokz101]

ayay! sakto jd ana diay iya style.. aw adto matug sa sala. hehehe btaw, share jd dapat na .. kasal na ba mo if so righfully mo share cya. Insensitive man if ana iya style.

[silahis]

Hi all! thanks sa inyong mga replies I felt better reading na somehow my reaction was normal

Heres my answers sa inyong mga questions.

*No, dili mi kasal. Nag live together me just recently pero uyab mi for more than 5 yrs.
*Mo share man sad siya sa grocery. Actually tunga mi sa grocery pero strickly mao rajud like among budget for grocery is 4k every month, 2000 iya no more than that. D man gud mi mag dungan ug grocery. Mag iyahay mi kay mag away man mi ug mag kuyog mi.
*tunga-tunga mi sa mga bills and all pero ang ako rman jud na lainan is kung naa koy extra money mo share jud ko niya usahay mo hatag gani ko niya. Then para maka save sa grocery akoy mo shoulder sa grocery for that month basta naa lng jud koy extra sa ila jud tanan punta i was expecting the same from him. Sala ra sad nako taas kaayo ko ug expectation.

I will talk to him about this kay naka basa sad ko dire from another post na "communication is key jud para mowork out ang relationship" and "money is the number 1 reason why couples break-up"

Thank you guys sa pag pansin aning akong post. Nag sakit japon akong heart mag tan-aw sa iyang gipalit pero yes its hes money wala koy mahimo.

dara man diay na. i thought ikay nishouldr tanan. seems fine to me based from your post.

naa mn kaha moy gisabutan nga tunga mo expenses monthly? kaning sa grocery ninyo, does this 4k suffice? if yes, then stick with your terms. if not, sulti-a siya sa imong concern... or basin hilig pud ka'g palit2 ug bisan unsa?

why man mu.volunteer ka? why make it hard on yourself?
i think it's too premature to conclude nga "insensitive" siya
is he aware nga you're spending beyond sa inyong gisabutan? basin he's under the impression nga everything is ok ra, pero sa imo dili na diay.


if naa ka extra... i say, keep it to yourself. open a personal acct. for yourself lng. don't disclose it to him.
don't expect nga mu reciprocate siya sa imong gestures. because dili tanan taw parehas ug batasan nimo. masakitan lng ka kung taas ra ka'g expectations.


now that you have noticed the differences between ninyong duha, find ways nga mu work on you both nga either ninyo dili ma.alkanse. tone down that 'selfless' tendency of yours.
play the game along with him.


miskan nag.ipon mo TS, paghipos japon para sa imong kaugalingon.
wa ta kahibaw sa umaabot, may nang naa kay pundo para di ka mag nga-nga if that time comes.

[tylerdurden]

I don't get what's the problem. It looks like all the essentials are being covered, 50/50. If you have extra and you're spending it on something you both share, are you not doing it by "the goodness of your heart"? If you are, why are you complaining that he does not do the same? If you're not, why bother sharing?

[slabs8]

dili man siguro sayop kung dili niya e intrigo nimo ang iyang kita, ang sayop kung dili siya mogasto para sa inyong pamilya, kung mao nay inyong sitwasyon, tag-anon nalang nako daan, layo rang 2years mag kwentas nakag bukog kung magpadayon na inyo set-up

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Thank you guys sa pag pansin aning akong post. Nag sakit japon akong heart mag tan-aw sa iyang gipalit pero yes its hes money wala koy mahimo.

giahak comment2x pakog tinarong...mangutana nalang ko bi. unsa man jud na iyang gipalit nga gikasakit ug maayo sa imong dughan? porn magazine na?

[izecream]

Hahaha this is normal case of all family problems...everythings change tungod kay naa mo baby na!!! saon ta man nga naa man moy tagsa nga hilig! or basin smart lang ang imong partner! be smart sad,,,save some penny for your self...its your plan B...but ayaw jd mo pag away tungod lang sa kwarta...hehehehe