Breaking-Up with my Wife after almost 5 years..I dont have child from her! Unsaon mna nko move on dayon?!HELP!

[Ronzkie23]

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Its too late.. di na jud mahilot tanan.. dawaton nlng nako og basin mo abroad nlng ko ani...

[beyee]

Have you tried talking things over?

Usually conflicts at home can never be resolved if either
one totally gives up when there's still another chance
to solve the problem, worse, either one refuses to fix
things with the partner.

You guys talk what's making you both riled up and what are
the things you need to avoid from wringing each other's neck
in the future. Most cases, when we're too mad, we end up
making irrational decisions without seeing the whole perspective
of things. Anger makes a sane person blind.

Last resort would be, find a third party to listen to you guys like
marriage counselor. You vent out all your frustrations through a
dialogue and having the counselor around would help you point
out and even channel your anger to something positive that for
sure will help you and your wife.

[Ronzkie23]

Have you tried talking things over?

Usually conflicts at home can never be resolved if either
one totally gives up when there's still another chance
to solve the problem, worse, either one refuses to fix
things with the partner.

You guys talk what's making you both riled up and what are
the things you need to avoid from wringing each other's neck
in the future. Most cases, when we're too mad, we end up
making irrational decisions without seeing the whole perspective
of things. Anger makes a sane person blind.

Last resort would be, find a third party to listen to you guys like
marriage counselor. You vent out all your frustrations through a
dialogue and having the counselor around would help you point
out and even channel your anger to something positive that for
sure will help you and your wife.

Sis! Im done my part.. try nko pakumbaba ganiha pero xa padayon ghpon so i guess we both reach limit na cgro.. so now im planning how to start all over again.. for almost 5 years.. lisud lng kay legally married me so there's tendency na dli namo malimtan usat-usa og labaw dli name mamenyo usab.. pero i guess i focus nlng to myself and family to improve our life and maybe this time i will change not my attitude but who i am now should be better person in future!! sad i want to cry coz i don't to end this but i need to stand still kay lalake ko.. i will let the God whatever he want me to become after this..

[beyee]

Ok good luck then

[Zakary]

akong advice ana is kong kaya na nimo nga wa kay dulog nig higda og katug nimo brader og basta kaya na nimo nga wala siya sa imong kiliran go ahead isturyaa siya nga undangon na nimo inyong relasyon duha . better make sure lang brader na once wala na siya sa imong kiliran you will have peace of mind og di na ka magsige handum niya .

[Ronzkie23]

akong advice ana is kong kaya na nimo nga wa kay dulog nig higda og katug nimo brader og basta kaya na nimo nga wala siya sa imong kiliran go ahead isturyaa siya nga undangon na nimo inyong relasyon duha . better make sure lang brader na once wala na siya sa imong kiliran you will have peace of mind og di na ka magsige handum niya .

di pud na malikayan bro.. love mn nko xa.. naa mn sad ko sala admit nko na.. ambot pati ako karon libog kaau ako huna2x.. wa ko ksabot! wa ko gana mo kaon! lami inom!! paetah!! OK RA UNTA KUNG UYAB LNG KASO ASAWA MN GUD LISUD NA KAAYO KAY MASKIN ASA KA FILL-UP FORM MARRIED jud suwat nako og xa jud mahinumduman nako bro,,,

[peter_north]

Away bata. Paglahi mo ug puyo oy

[Zakary]

mao lagi brader nga ingon ko na make sure di ka magpangita niya kong wala na siya sa imong kiliran kay di baya lalim lima ka tuig mo gakuyog kada adlaw nig katug nimo . kana maanad na ka na naa kay kuyog pirme og naa sa imong kiliran pirme , lisod gyud kaayo brader . akong advice lang brader ayaw himua nga outlet ang muinom kay tungod ana ,lisod na baya nang makainom ka mawa na gyud kas maayong pangisip ana clouded kayo imo hunahuna .

[Ronzkie23]

Away bata. Paglahi mo ug puyo oy

excuse me?!

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mao lagi brader nga ingon ko na make sure di ka magpangita niya kong wala na siya sa imong kiliran kay di baya lalim lima ka tuig mo gakuyog kada adlaw nig katug nimo . kana maanad na ka na naa kay kuyog pirme og naa sa imong kiliran pirme , lisod gyud kaayo brader . akong advice lang brader ayaw himua nga outlet ang muinom kay tungod ana ,lisod na baya nang makainom ka mawa na gyud kas maayong pangisip ana clouded kayo imo hunahuna .

murag diha jud ko padulong unya bro.. karon man gud sagol ako gbati kalagot og pagmahay! pero kung cgro mapagawas nako ni unya basin ma kalma nko og mkahuna-huna nako unsa'y maayo.. sa pagka karon! weak kaau ko brod.. lami kaau syagit bah! isog kaau xa karon kay doul xa sa iya mga parente.. ako mao'y wlay kaagapay karon! nag-inusara jud ko! ako mao'y nahimo masama.. oh naa ko pagka bipolar pero di mn nko na tuyoon.. love kaau nako xa.. di nko gusto xa mawla pero kung ingon ani permi og di na gyud xa gusto balik me.. bahala na.. either di sko pakita nya or mo abroad nlng cgro ko..

[Zakary]

brader sa akong analyze murag di sguro nimo makaya kay sa imo lang gipamulong diri nga weak kayo ka og love kayo nimo siya , what more kong wala na siya sa imong kiliran ? I suggest brader nga suwayan usa nimo og lakaw palayo pila ka adlaw, go to the province og naa moy probinsya its much better to think away from her para imo sab mahunahuna og maayo unsa maayo nimong buhaton kong wa na siya sa imong kiliran , of course you will feel lonely at first pero kaya lang , much better gani you will go to a place where there its near sa beach kay maayo kayo mamalandong brader nga naa ka daplin sa baybayon makahunahuna ka og maayo ,this is speaking from experience brader , been there done that .