PM me instead if you wanna post in this thread. PLEASE...

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greystroke, murag lain man na imung ikaduhang "engaged" bai, dugay na man nadaut akung health ana. heheh time to get "almost serious" na ko. almost lng sa ha.

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really pixie? heheh murag kilig gyud tinuod dah kay grabe imu smiley. if ever i'd talk to her about that, would it be better if mo propose nlng dayon after sa conversation? or should i take a little more time before actually saying it, like days or a week.

[kat|see]

technically, you will.but that doesn't mean you are tied to your fiancée or fiancé forever whatever happens.come on, if you think it's hell already, why stay?!

[Bolshoi]

For this matter bro, i think it depends on how old you are? My cousin just married last month. They meet with his gf for only one month unya nag on sila as in 2 months lang then decided to get married not thinking twice. So time doesn't matter jud diay. Peru sakto naman jud cla sa edad, groom is 39 and bride is 41 yrs. old.

How old are you bro? For me if you're engage it doesn't mean na oblige jud ka, you have a freedom to say no or to choose bisan engage na. Ako friend 9 years sa iya gf pru bulag rajapon.

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blank_check I agree with you, naa may ubang engaged taud² pa before magminyo.

I guess when you go into that, you'll view everything you do with your other half as ma imagine na nimo kung unsa kaha ug minyo na gyud mo. That's fine, propose dayon. Sa tan-aw nimo pila ka years pa after the engagement mo magpakasal?

Heheh, ka cute sad uy.

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nice replies. heheh ok gyud ni nga forum dah.

im still young to get married i believe, that's why i'm thinking twice if ok lng ba mo propose ko without getting married sooner. kay basn mag expect nya akung gf ug ing-ana. of course she would expect it but i don't want her to think na im gonna marry her already.

so there's not a thing like being obliged or something to get married when you propose an engagement.

the earliest that i might think of getting married would be a year-and-a-half to two years. the earliest na ha. heheh

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Ha? you don't see yourself marrying her just yet? Hmmm i'm a little confused. Getting engaged is getting married maybe not sooner, pero magminyo gyud, mao engaged.

[karl007]

I've done that bai exactly a year from now. I gave her the ring. It doesnt mean that you already locked in for the relationship but it would serve as a motivation that you have this goal to achieve. The Ring holds the water bai and it gives a clearer vision on what would be the road to take and what would be your mission and goals. Just keep it slow and take time each day of your lives. Afterall, it would only depend on both you, and it wont be an assurance also there will be no obstacles and hindrances sa inyong duha. I'll tell you, The Ring could be shaken, it could be tarnished and be tested, but one that holds it strong not to break down... is Love. Love on both of you. Not Love for just only one person, but Love for both of you!

Love wins it all bai. The ring is just an instrument, keep the lovin' burning, but it aint easy bai... when we were at the second year of our relationship, we both love each perfectly. But as time goes by, sometimes people made dull and stupid decisions. Without them knowing, they would regret it for life. Keep your principles intact, afterall one has to know between the transient and the enduring. The one endures, is the one whos got the unbroken principles in his/her system. And the one who wont last long, are the who wont achieve peace of mind. Keep that in mind bro.

The ring means a lot of things.... cover it with Love!

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yup its definitely a no. a friend of mined where ingage with her bf for almost 2 yrs now.. and they are not yet married. though there parents asked them to do so.. depende gihapun na sa inyo.. if both of you decided to get married already and you think that your ready for that. well and good.. but if not then give yourselves some time to think things over and maybe prepare for that future.. but don't make it too long..

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nope, not thinking of marrying her just yet and not marrying her at all are two different things. i wanna marry her that's why i'm planning to propose an engagement when i get back but, there's a but down the line, i don't wanna execute the marriage thing sooner just yet.

i agree, the ring is just an instrument that helps keep the relationship burning. the commitment, trust, and everything could be represented by the ring. but that's as long as each other has it. the ring doesn't mean anything at all if we see it as just another thing.

so definitely im gonna propose this december. heheh i'll just have to think on how to do it.