kana bitawng mother-in-law nga hilabtanon, unsay tan.aw/masulti ninyo ana? please advice.si ko...

[sugarcakes_babe]

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kung eyesore para niya ang mga labhanan nimo madam, pwedi man siya manglaba. pag ask niya nimo nga "kumusta naman ang labhanan" imo unta to gitubag ug "dia gihapon diri nagpaabot nimo" ... hehe ..

hahahahah mao jud bossing, karon gani, everytime mag.tan.aw kos akong labhunon,iyang dagway mosud sa akong utok, hahahah saon nlng. lami lagi kaau birahan bossing, pasalamat jud xa lab kau nako iyang anak, pugong lang tah as much as possible, pero for sure iya pa nang usbon inig.ari niya balik, aw ato kahang patilawon gamay ug insulto, kung unhan lang ko.... d man pud maayo noh? nga manghilabot siya? problema nana nako kung kanus.a nako labhan akong labhanan. maygeeeed jud ning mga pinalangga natong mudra-in-law.... imbis super duper kaau nato girespeto hinuon, mao man lang gihapon, d pud cguro nah maayo iyang gibuhat sah, basta ako , as of this moment ma.yaka2 pa, pero i dont think so kung iya nanang i.career in the long run iyang dirty business..

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kung eyesore para niya ang mga labhanan nimo madam, pwedi man siya manglaba. pag ask niya nimo nga "kumusta naman ang labhanan" imo unta to gitubag ug "dia gihapon diri nagpaabot nimo" ... hehe ..

BTW, I SUPERB LIKE UR COMMENT @digitalsuperman tenchu... mawala.wala nlng jud tawn akong kasakit nga gidala2...

[sugarcakes_babe]

Ayaw ug duwa sa ilang game TS, basin mao nay gusto sa imo mother in law nga mupahawa ka. Take everything they are saying as criticisms that you can improve on and repay them with kindness. Rise above para mafeel niya unsa ka kitid iya utok and haron sad ma prove nimo nga di mo ka level ug panghuna huna.

Better jud tinuora maglain mo and better sad if di tinuod ang gipang ingon sa imo mother in law, basin sad diay sala jud nimo.hehehe

couldn't agree more... lamaaats kau @jxm1311

[yvonne6]

do not try to fight your mother in law ts. ayaw ibutang imong self sa situation nga dili mo comfortable ug mag uban mo. you have to understand that your mother in law has standards. dili pana nimo masabtan kay wala pa man ka ana nga stage. instead, take the experience positively. try to manage your chores. ayaw hulata nga mag tambak ang labhanan. ga trabaho baka o naa lang ka sa balay? naa juy mga taw nga dili maka stand ug gubot nga balay like myself. bisan ug ga trabaho ko 5 days a week, mag overtime pako usahay ug rest day nako, dili ko ka stand nga hugaw ang balay mao na akong rest day mahurot lang ug nilimpyo sa balay. show your mother in law you are better than what she thinks the kind of woman you are. takes time to convince in laws that their son has chosen to be with the right woman...once makuha nimo ang sympathy sa imong in laws, sila pa mismo ang molaban nimo. trust me

[digitalsuperman]

hahahahah mao jud bossing, karon gani, everytime mag.tan.aw kos akong labhunon,iyang dagway mosud sa akong utok, hahahah saon nlng. lami lagi kaau birahan bossing, pasalamat jud xa lab kau nako iyang anak, pugong lang tah as much as possible, pero for sure iya pa nang usbon inig.ari niya balik, aw ato kahang patilawon gamay ug insulto, kung unhan lang ko.... d man pud maayo noh? nga manghilabot siya? problema nana nako kung kanus.a nako labhan akong labhanan. maygeeeed jud ning mga pinalangga natong mudra-in-law.... imbis super duper kaau nato girespeto hinuon, mao man lang gihapon, d pud cguro nah maayo iyang gibuhat sah, basta ako , as of this moment ma.yaka2 pa, pero i dont think so kung iya nanang i.career in the long run iyang dirty business..


BTW, I SUPERB LIKE UR COMMENT @digitalsuperman tenchu... mawala.wala nlng jud tawn akong kasakit nga gidala2...

hehe. bitaw madam. joke rana akoa. ayaw nalang pikhi oi.kay tabla rag imong gidagkutan ang kalayo na daan. naa gyud tawo hilabtanon madam oi. dili lang mga ugangan.

ang imo lang kay dapat dili lang ka paapekto kaayo. kasabot man pud ko ba nga stressed pud ka sa work mao guro sensitive ka.hehe. and since stressed paka sa work, siguro ayaw nalang na seryosoha iyang gipang istorya kay ikaw raman pud luoy gud.awa karon oh, sige ka ug ka stress ana niya then naa paka work.mo cascade na imong stress delikado au.

imo ugangan didto wala gyud nag stress nimo.hehe.yahay au.ikaw ray pildi madam kung paapekto ka.

siguro mas maayo mo relax lang sa ka.then ayaw nalang na panumbalinga. birahi lang ug mga joke ginagmay. para siya pud ang ma stress..

kung mo ask siya nimo balik ug kumusta na imong labhanan, ingna lang nga "dia diri naghuwat ko nga iya labhan iya kaugalingon.".. hehe.

[Echelnalf]

Pasagdi-i naLang na ses. Dili na nimo ka level. Maka realize ra na imong bana nga siya ang mauwawan anang kalaki sa iyang inahan.

[punk8ska]

Mam ayaw tawn ug buwagi ang imong husband kay mawad.an kag kalipay. Hehe lolz.
Joke ra. Bitaw ayaw damaya sa kalagot ang imong bana sa imong mother.in.law kay wala ma niya gi gusto nga
Dli mo magka sundo sa iyang mother. Adjust lang kay in.ana jud ang married life daghan pagsuway.
Sakto na inyo gibuhat nga nilahi mo ug balay. Maski pag mo bisita ug daghan comment sa inyong panimalay,
Pasagdahi kay occasional raman na ang pag bisita ug dli bitaw na everyday mo visit sa inyo balay.
Ang importante nga malipayon mo mag asawa ^_^

[sugarcakes_babe]

...thank u girl @yvonne6 sa advice. appreciate it much.. naka.sense nako iyang gi.initan akong laundries ato when she visited us here in cebu, i did not washed it dayon aside sa i was totally busy the whole week, but i am expecting a labandera, which unfortunately refused that day when i was supposed to let her do the laundries, pero wa jud ko nagmind nga iyang gi.initan akong linabhan ato, coz that was totally just a piece of crap issue for me to take it seriously...pero ang nakapa.set jud ug fire sa akong emotion kay katong iya nakong gilibak sa tita sa akong husband... two months after the issue of labhanan, two months after she visited our house, sakto ba nah?? so iyang gituyo na dauton ko right? nga in fact, katong niari xa cebu, and she's leaving back for ***(another island in visayas) thru a plane, is wa na nako xa nahatod na kay niana ko manglaba pa ko, she even saw me bringing my laundries to the cr.. maygad! and mao pa na iyang ipakita nako as her daughter-in-law?? sakto ba nah?? ibackbite ang mga flawses nako?? clearly, iyang gusto is dauton ko, well, i knew she would do that to me in the long run, coz for the record, dili raman sad ako ang iyang gibackbite... everybody actually.. from her clan to her husband's clan... because her mother is such a CERTIFIED BACKBITER... u know a person who backbites, backbites you... kay katong nipuyo pako sa ila, gihimo jud ko niyang diary of backbittings hahahahah, tanaaaan tawo nga wa pa nako nahimamat, kaila nako by name lang nuon tungod niya, sadly mga bati sides lang about nila, hahay, i was so sick of hearing her libaks everyday, and all i just did is tando2 lang, pero makahinumdom d i ko muana ko usahay, ila sad nang life. hahay i lived with my in laws for six months, there she saw me how industrious and OC i am when it comes to cleanliness and arrangements. they got two more kids other than my husband and they were totally messy. in short i was once their ALL AROUND HELPER i could say and i was pregnant then.... tho it has a positive outcome, i gave birth one week before my expected date of delivery and my daughter came out pretty healthy.. you know, i'd always do all my best to get all the chores done before her mother arrives from work, because her mother was also such a professional nagger, you know that kind of nag that when you hear it, it some kind of make you feel sick, faint and an unexplainable pain from the head that connects to your heart that eventually shortens your breath... i could still vividly remember THAT FEELING! and that is how my morning always starts,coz my room was the closest to their dining and kitchen area, and that's where her mother usu do the rants very early in the morning, DAILY!! i wasn't really used to it.... my mother was never like that, my mother don't nag at all, tho she scolds us pero hinay iyang boses and gagmay nga igo nga words, and the next thing we know is grounded nami.. unlike her mother, naay built-in mouth all over her body... and there's nothing u can do but show them everything is fine... i just don't get the idea why there's a need for her to backbite people, to backbite me.... it hurts me to the bones lang jud.... that feeling nga respeto kaau nimo sila yet sila ra d i gihapon ang moguba ana nga respeto....well, from now on, distanxa nako gamay niya, and my husband knows it already and well understood my feelings and said sorry in behalf sa iyang mama... still the real question that superb boggles my mind, is nga kailangan ba jud nga ipanabi niya sa laing tawo? sa tita pajud sa akong husband? nga the fact lagi, before she left, wa ko nihatod niya kay nanglaba ko.. so meaning wa pa xa naabot balik sa ilaha, im done with all my laundries haven't she thought about that? well for sure wala, kay iyang mindset, dauton ko... and iya pang gipadako kay after two months,nakaya pa niya ug panabi sa tita sa akong husband... oh, c'mon! i pity this kind of mother-in-law and they don't deserve a sound respect! well pasensyaay lang jud, but still i don't want to start a war for my husband's sake, pero our in-laws relationship will never be that warm, i actually opened this up to my husband, everything, and he's more than willing to understand me whole-heartedly than lose me and her daughter.... and to my mother-in-law, I PITY YOU BITCH! puryagaba lang and patawad LORD...

[yaj.em]

pila d i edad sa imong mother-in-law TS? kung tiguwang2 na gani, cge lng. huwata lng kay hapit nana. hehehehhe (Evil laugh)
pero kung sa tan aw nimo, dugay pa... aw antos lng gamay gud. padong ra na dha ghapon :P

[rednagger]

tsk tsk tsk... ang nindot ana estoryahan na nimo

[reighyah]

pasagdie na maam oy..najuy in-ana na ugangan labi nag edaran najud "50s" lainlain ang timpla ana..sabta lang sila..wa sila kibaw kung unsa jud ka so ayaw paapekto..kataw.elang na..