Girl,
Of COURSE nagmahay ang guy!!!!
Dili lalim maginvest in a relationship for years, dili lalim mag ilis ug GF and mag adjust utro, its not easy... maybe if tan awun nimu imung ex, he might look happy and all but deep inside, he's just hiding it... Because atung bata pa sila, kasab an na sila sailang amahan kung muhilak sila and ingnun na bayot ra ang gahilak
I have a guyfriend who broke up with my BFF, well actually, two guys! and my two BFF's.... As usual, akong mga BFF ga-shout out sailang kasakit, OUT LOUD... And seek for company and a shoulder to cry on to me... They wail, they say how miserable thier lives are and all that common things women talk and cry about in a break up....
And then I go home and log on to my netbook and there goes guy number one who would secretly ask me "Iris, am I that mean?" and there's the guy number two who'd ring my phone in the middle of my sleep and ask me how his ex was and what we have talked about..... They were the ones who broke up with the girls and yet they still care and gamahay sila....
actually, guy number two happened since 2011 until now... Guy number one just happened recently... observing how these two different men reacted to break ups, I gotta say na men aren't that rock solid.... they have hearts and they get hurt and it doesnt matter who initiated the breakup....
Ever heard the song "Let me be the one" by Jimmy bondoc? It's like that! Here... let me post the lyrics...
Somebody told me you were leavin’
I didn’t know
Somebody told me you’re unhappy
But it doesn’t show
Somebody told me that you don’t want me no more
So you’re walkin’ out the door
Nobody told me you’ve been cryin’
Every night
Nobody told me you’d been dyin’
But didn’t want to fight
Nobody told me that you fell out of love from me
So I’m settin’ you free
Let me be the one to break it up
So you won’t have to make excuses
We don’t need to find a set up where
Someone wins and someone loses
We just have to say our love was true
But has now become a lie
So I’m tellin’ you I love you one last time
And goodbye
Somebody told me you still loved me
Don’t know why
Nobody told me that you only
Needed time to fly
Somebody told me that you want to come back when
Our love is real again
Just turn around and walk away
You don’t have to live like this
But if you love me still then stay
Don’t keep me waiting for that final kiss
We can work together through this test
Or we can work through it apart
I just need to get this off my chest
That you will always have my heart
see?
Do understand na wala na sa gender.... And you are soooo important! You're pretty, and you're somebody!