Relationship Challenge : Will you still love her even if she slept with 15 guys?

[jiax]

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bottom line for the guys is PAST IS PAST deal with it and accept the fact nga mao nay nahitabo sa girl before and stop all the doubts if you really love the girl

[regan4us]

kani TS nuh naka agi npod bya ko ani TS kami mga laki jd mag gregor jd na ang utok ma pride bya me mga laki ganhn me kami maka una jd pero bilib jd ko sa grl kay ni angkon jd sya and hmmm forgive and forget ra jd ang dapat ana TS then sa laki be open minded brad karon panahona wala nay taw nga limpyo ebutang sa imong mind nga kng love nimo ang usa kataw bsan unsa pana ang iyang pass d ka mo matter ana !!!! basta salig lang jd sa imong partner then para sa girl ayaw pod pag hatag ug butang nga matandog ang huna2x sa imong uyab kanang magtagay2x palayo anang butanga

[cyareful]

love conquers all so it doesn't matter..

[jiax]

vincit omnia amore mao gyd na ang rule .. love conquers all basta maigo na gyd ka

[clyde2586]

The only way i can think of actually getting rid of the insecurities is to try out different things
Do something they havent tried before? Tie the hands, use candles, maybe toys, blindfolds anyone?
If the guy can experience and learn that he is going to be the 1st to do this, then this might settle most of the insecurities he has.
This is actually my way of getting rid of my demons before, i know past naman gud pero bisag unsaon dli mawala ang insecurities just like that. Even after putting the mindset na past is past mag.rigor jud ang ulo sa guy.

Although para sa imong friend let him understand na WALA GAMATTER anyone else before sa imo kung ang plano sa girl na cya ang LAST.
a girl kneeling infront of him? peste kaklaro ana na gugma sa part sa girl and regret is something the girl shouldnt live with, and worse pa he's making her hate herself tunogd sa iyang past.
maningkamot ang guy na cya ang last and kung insecure cya basin dli pana mahinabo, insecurity is a seed that can destroy relationships.

luoy ang girl if cge pa ka insecure ang guy although you cant blame him, pangitaag paagi. ingna tong migo nimo to try what i suggested. ask him to spice up their relationship by doing things in bed that the girl hasnt done yet, this should at least ease up some of the insecurities by knowing na cya una nag blindfold, nag sindi ug candles sa room, roleplay... etc....

[jiax]

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i guess dli man lang cguro dpat in bed ang situation to remove the insecurities dba? pero thats ur opinion bro

for me lng ha dli man cguro dpat sa bed lng gyd tanan para mka remove sa insecurities.. i think show her nga dli sya dpat mag mahay sa iyang past kay iya man to binuhatan and isa pa if u really love the person you will accept everything kung unsa pana iyang situation nga na agi.an

[dearlabe]

TS, frankly speaking kapoy basa sa imong thread kay taas kaayo but the way I understand it, is that the guy is now hesitant to his girl becoz she slept with 14 men in the past. My direct to the point remark on this is that, it is not the counting of different *****es that get inside this heavenly hole that matters but rather the counting of days that you are left to share your life with the love of your life. Life is TOO SHORT to be counting 1 to 15. If you are not happy with your current partner because of this lame reason of counting *****es vs. 1 hole, then quit and find your way to happiness so that you can start counting 1 to forever. Good Luck!

[jiax]

sakto ka @dearlabe its all about the time being spent to that person and the happiness that both of you embraces

[clyde2586]

im not saying that the only way to get rid of the insecurities to be better in bed. of course apil jud na sa inyong pagkuyog sa pang everyday.. i just think that since the problem is that she slept with 14 others guys makes the guy insecure, hence the reason why i suggested the INTIMATE playfulness they should do.
now the problem is why is the guy insecure outside of bed? does the guy think that the girl is "less than what he deserves?" does the guy think that she is not fit for him since "gamit" na ang girl ? unsa ni ? feeling high and mighty ni na laki? for F*CKS sake.. kung babayi maka angkon na nagka multiple experiences na cya nad it brings down her value? unsa man diay ang mga laki na cge ug pangita ug AKSYON sa kama, tanaw niya na ang laki mas modako ang value kung mas daghan na naka siping..
the girl maybe the guys 1st. but i think na unfair jud ang laki sa bayi..

[jiax]

choosy ra kaau ang laki on my end here .. pero having the courage to admit everything to a guy nga ganahan sya kayasa dako na kaau na ug PLUS points oi.. the only thing there is mayta mag tarong na sila duha dli kay intro lng kutob then mo bati daun ang timpla sa ilang relationship if mag dugay na